First love

what do you mean?

 

ooohh i got ya took me a second lol

 

I think guys live more in the moment of love...there are a lot of girls I was dating that I said I love you to, but I look back and I'm like what they hell were you thinking saying that.....My wife that I am married is my true/first love....the first woman that I have ever given my most intimate feelings to.....guys mentality is if I find it I find it, if not no sweat off my shoulders. I have never looked at an ex and thought I miss you or wonder what it be like if we were still together.....


Women on the other hand are different, girls are raised on the idea of marriage and romance, they are set on finding that true love...so when a woman finds that true love and it doesnt work out for whatever reason they DON'T LOSE that love.....SO A TIP FOR GUYS IF YOU ARE READING THIS: IF YOUR GIRL HAS A TRUE LOVE IN A PREVIOUS LIFE MAKE SURE HE STAYS THE FUCK OUT THE NEW LIFE YOU AND YOUR GIRL HAVE CREATED....OH HE WILL FUCK IT ALL UP FOR YOU....I just recently went through a period of seperation with my wife over her first love and a combination of other things...but the point is she was going to be with him because the day we seperated who did she go running to.....rather than working on our issues she goes running to him hoping being with him would fix everything.....well needless to say my wife and I are back together but there are def some trust issues that i have with her....altho she claims to love me unconditionally or I am the one she wants to be with blah blah blah...it is very hard for me to trust her.....we were doing great until actually this morning when I was playing with her new cell phone I noticed that he called her right before we went away for the weekend...so that sent our relationship spiraling back to square 1......and she doesnt regret going back to him, he is her first love and will always be blah blah blah....so now regardless of what she says now I always feel like it is a constant comparison to him..ALSO TO CLERIFY ANYONE THINKING WE WERE SEPERATED SHE CAN DO WHAT SHE WANTS, WE ARE MARRIED AND HAVE CHILDREN...SO IT NOT THAT EASY TO JUST RUN OFF TO AN EX B/F BECAUSE WE HAVE DIFFERENCES ..its all a bunch of bullshit....GUYS/GIRLS IF YOU CARE ABOUT YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER MAKE DAMN SURE THAT FIRST LOVE STAYS OUT OF THE PICTURE FOR AS LONG AS YOU ARE TOGETHER


just thought I'd share that little tidbit