First Encounters

My first experience was surfing and started texting a guy on sniffles of all places. He sent me his address and told me the front door was unlocked.
I walked it wearing shorts, no underwear, t shirt and flip flops. He pulled my shorts down and went to work. First ever bi experience.
If I was to do it over again I would have done stayed and continued with more man on man fun.

 

So would I!!!!!

 

Man….. that was one hell of a first time!

 

I've found that when a first-timer realizes that, hey, this isn't as bad as everyone says it is, it's on like you wouldn't believe. Seriously, who the fuck knew that sucking cock with a guy could be so goddamned good?

 

In the many first encounters that I've either participated in or "counselled" the first timer, the biggest concern other than the usual "what will everyone think and say about me if I do this" thing is... what is it like? There's always been this disconnect where guys who've had a woman blow them gets it into their head that it's very different when a guy does it and, yes, thepapasmurph said it right when he said that guys are, indeed, under the impression that they should not ever want to do with a guy (one way or the other or both, heh, heh) and if they do it, they're not supposed to like it, they must be a closet homosexual, the usual dumb shit that's been around since societies started freaking out about this..

The psychological mindfucking guys get about this can be potent enough to make guys who are very curious about this change their minds about actually doing it. As I've said time and time again, there's a reason why so many men who have (a) let a guy blow them and/or (b) blown another guy have said that they now can't understand (c) why it took them so long to do this, (d) what they were afraid of and (e) who the fuck knew this was so fucking good and, often (f) I've had guys tell me that I suck dick better than any woman who has blown them.

Once they realize that (g) they didn't instantly come down with every STI/STD known to mankind and (h) they didn't instantly become gay, many a man has said that they've felt like a great weight had been lifted from them. It's been rare that I've told a guy looking for his first time to... not do anything about this until they've gotten their head in the right place; some guys shouldn't take the plunge and no matter how badly they feel the need to do it. That's not all guys, though and barring some real earth-shattering shit, if you've been thinking about having your first time with a cock, have at it. Be smart, be safe, don't procrastinate and do what you've been wanting to do.

I won't tell if you won't.

 

What takes place behind closed doors stays behind closed doors. I've told several first timers, look man, nobody knows I suck cock except for the guys who's cock I sucked so your secret is safe with me. If you enjoy it, we can certainly get together again to do so again, if you don't it's OK and we'll go on our separate ways. No harm, no foul and your secret is safe with me.

 

I wholeheartedly agree with this. I've told guys, "Look, the only way someone else is going to find out is if you tell them; besides, I don't know who you know! We gonna do this or what?" If I give my word that I won't tell, then I'm not telling because a man's word is his bond and if your word ain't worth a damn, that's a problem and one I don't want anything to do with.