First Dates

so text or call her and ask her when she's free to get together again for a date. make it out somewhere though, a coffee shop, a restaurant, a walk in the park, not at your or her place. This is about getting to know each other not be tempted to jump into bed with her right away, right? I mean , if you like her, you can't take a 'booty' call and turn it into a relationship.
See if she'd like to get together again, set the day then confirm that morning regarding the exact time and meeting place.

Now, her reactions to your suggestion of a second date will tell you what you want to know.
If she agrees to another date. She's interested.
If she agrees and also texts you and calls you and wants to chat before you meet up again, very good sign!
Keep dates to an hour or 2, not the whole night!
Have a back up plan if she cancels on you, then you will be going out anyway with your friends and your night is not ruined.
If the date goes well, you set up another date. Keep your plans with your friends, keep doing your hobbies and whatever else you normally enjoy doing. Women respect men that have their own interests and won't smother them, give her space with her friends and her own down time. Show her you like her but show her you have your own life too.


Always pay for the date, and if you're on a tight budget then just bring some food, snacks or coffee/sodas and have a walk, a bite to eat by the Lake or whatever.Hope that helps!

 

Right here

I got asked out on a date by a girl I liked. We went to a bar, drank some wine, and went to a jazz club for some more drinks, then we went home on the bus. That was it after that, no contact despite trying to arrange stuff. Guess I suck at dating!

 

You seem like an easy guy.... In a way im saying you seem way too nice. Im glad you didnt contact her after you saw her. Now when you do see her, MAKE HER to ask you to see you, and make her talk to you after seeing her. Dont ask her, and dont contact her after. That makes the bitches run after you lmao... Well then you'll know whether she is trying or not to be with you or not.

She maybe be the type of girl who doesnt earn trust easily. I am one of those people, but I sure would at least contact the guy and make some reasonable sense in a talk. But both of you seem young and going through too much of an emotional rollar-coaster, dont do this. When you meet a girl, just have a good time, dont kiss ass too much, be yourself and if you think shes the right one to go futther, dont be there 24/7, as sadly as it sounds and the worst thing I can say, woman like that.. and I myself even dont understand. Just tell her "Im interested in you, and I want to you later" Doesnt say how interested, doesnt say when, so she can make the move on you, if she doesnt move on and dont think of it too much. Just look at the date as a date not a marriage.

 

Know why? Cause you took a bus home.... A cab at least is more entertaining to get a girl back to your place than a bus.

 

I've taken my girl everywhere we've gone on a bus, or by chaperon from my mum :afro: