why would i take it personally? I think the world is full of people--gay, straight, men, women--who don't like (or aren't 'attracted to', to adopt your specificity) flamboyant/feminine-acting men. you don't have to come to the fringe forum on the internet to find out that you're not alone on that. you know by default a lot of people agree with you on that one. I wasn't even arguing about that. I was making an observation. it's funny you thought I was attacking that point of view.