Also, just beating them at their own game. If I don't like people, my way of coping is becoming better than them at what they value (please spare me your lectures, I can be a petty bitch, we know this). Oh yeah quilting bitch? Let me one up you. Being the best wife or sending my husband with a boat load of some other sife's specialty that I make better because she talked shit about me. There's just little ways, where you don't seem catty or mean, but incredibly nice, but it's not nice, but seems nice, so no one can call you on it. You need an aromatherapy candle. I am going to make same next month (after we get setteled from moving) and will ship you one out.
i expect the worse to happen, no matter what. that way i'm never disappointed and therefore never stressed. because i'm never stressed, i never look at things and wish they could be better. maybe i do sometimes, but only for a moment - i don't dwell on such things. i'd say i have a pretty sweet system.
hahaha dave, no no, it was hypothetical....it actually stemmed from a reality show i was watching but thanks anyways, feel free to post any pics in here you'd like
i'm better than ok darlin', this strange little place is growin on me...i'm almost at the point where i couldnt imagine livin' anywhere else... im even shocked to hear myself say that, it's a good day