female ejaculation

I can't do it. I've had g-spot orgasms, but no squirting of any sort. *shrug*

 

Ive been sooo close! Really want to do it!

For the women who have squirted: how do you do it physically? I mean....i was told that when u feel like youre gonna cum you bear down on your PC muscles... but wouldnt that make your muscles clench up thus not able to squirt???

 

I really wants to read from women side, how is the feeling if can explain here, I can talk for men side

 

Ok, granted I am not a woman but have been with a few squirters and also a few who have squirted for the first time. I have done tons of research on the topic. I've read articles, books, seen videos and best of all, have experienced it first hand. One was on a very regular basis with an ex of mine. She would squirt almost every time she came.

Physically, the best way i can describe it is you are thinking about it too much. I think you're thinking you need to clench up. "Bear down" think "pushing out." But even better yet...think "relax." Just relax your muscles. I know this would seem hard to do in the midst of reaching climax, but the best way I can describe it is...you know that sensation of having to pee? Now imagine just "letting go" and letting whatever is going to come out, come out. I've helped a couple women relax in this manner. And usually no, it's not porn-like in that it's a geyser. That I honestly feel is trained by your muscles. You first need to experience squirting to know how to push and force it to go a few feet or more. To start, it may just dribble out. The first time I got my ex to squirt (was her first experience) I was manually stimulating her gspot nonstop for like 10 minutes, then I heard it coming. Listen for that "squish-squish" sound sorta. It's a sign it's coming. I kept going with my hand. A little faster. She never squirted so much as she just started soaking the bed underneath her. By the time I was done, there was a 12-inch diameter spot soaked onto her comforter! Extremely hot and erotic. It wasn't pee, it was cum. After this...she found it easier to squirt. Sometimes it would be the same way, other times it would be more or a light stream (which became the usual for her and would only last a couple seconds each time), and a few times she did literally gush. Can't explain how it happened though.


Gotta tell ya though, that first time...my forearm was soo sore for working my fingers so much inside of her that when I got home that night to check my e-mail n such before bed, my hand was shaking as I rested it on the mouse. It's intense, and the first time takes a LOT of work and patience sometimes. KEEP TRYING!!! It's extremely erotic!!!

 

I've squirted before, but the situation has to be just right. I've never squirted while someone was inside me, what gets me to actually squirt squirt is an orgasm from the clit, not the g-spot.

However, I do soak the bed, regularly. I juice everywhere, it's just not always "squirting". I stay wet no matter how much or how long I've been fucking, and I continue to be wet, and get my wetness EVERYWHERE. It's wonderful. It's like a freakin waterfall, it drives every man I've been with crazy. However, it can also be a burden because a lot of times it gets men off TOO easily because they can't handle real good pussy I guess, so then I don't get the chance to get off. My current boyfriend loves it and lasts regardless though, so I'm cool.

 

What I understand about female ejaculation is that you need to be completely relaxed not just physically but mentally as well. It can be quite difficult to shake off the feeling that you might make a big mess, and/or fear that whatever comes out might be urine instead of female ejaculate. The documents and videos I've come across all talk about this type of fear-based emotions, that they need to be dealt with before one attempts to actually ejaculate. And really it isn't something you try to learn over the course of a couple of days if you're having difficulty squirting. You need to be patient and make sure you have the time to dedicate to it, and to make sure you're comfortable with each and every step you take.

Some of the worst things you can do are to actually be stressed out about not being able to squirt, or to rush it, or to try to force it out, or to give up too quickly assuming you can't squirt. I think that, if you're just starting out, it would be a good idea to begin in the bathroom, maybe in the bathtub with towels in there to make it more comfortable to lie down in. This should lessen the fear of making a mess. Watching educational videos on female masturbation or reading about it may also help greatly from what I understand.

But I think the really important thing here is to relax and enjoy the sensations, even if you don't experience female ejaculation.

 

Downloaded and watched this movie. Very informative, although it got borning when they kept showing the same scenes over and over But now Im even more psyched to try it! Thanks for the movie tip!

 

You're welcome! Have fun!