Now I KNOW I'm in love-baby, that's the right idea. For me, KINDA hard, and at about the middle of the head as the spasms start-I'm in heaven.
I've probably posted these a million times before, but may as well include them... DIZZY'S 21 BLOWJOB TIPS These are all things that I think constitute the 'perfect' blowjob. However, not every man is the same obviously so I can only speak for myself... 1. Be patient First of all, don't be in a big rush to get the cock out of our pants (if we're wearing any). We like to have our bulge played with a bit. You can stroke it with your hands or your face, and if our pants are soft enough you can maybe even get your lips round it! 2. Slow-mo When you first put the cock in your mouth, or when you're taking it out, move your lips really slowly over the head of the cock. We love to savour the sight and the sensation of the head of our cock going between your lips, so the slower you do it, the more enjoyment we can derive from it. I can't stress this enough: you can't move your mouth too slowly down a cock. Slower is definitely sexier. (Just don't be slow all the time!) 3. Eye Contact For me, eye contact is probably the number 1 most important thing in a blowjob. Men love it! Remember though to actually look into his eyes. Normally when we talk to people we look just above their mouth. Moving your glance directly up to the eyes is a lot more personal! 4. Talk I love a woman to talk to me while I'm getting my cock sucked. A woman talking and looking into your eyes is a normal everyday scenario, so when you stick a cock right in the middle of it, it suddenly becomes very sexy and exciting. Try and talk to the guy normally (almost pretending the cock isn't there) with the cock almost in your mouth, licking it between words. Dunno about other men but this drives me crazy! 5. Avoid glancing Although eye contact is good, try to avoid very quickly glancing up. It just looks a little sly and uncomfortable and seems like you're 'performing' rather than 'enjoying'. Try to look as if you're enjoying it or the guy won't feel comfortable. Actually, if you're not enjoying it, why bother? 6. Don't suck Don't actually suck or blow — "sucking" and "blowing" cocks are just figures of speech. Just fuck him with your mouth; no need to play him like a bagpipe. 7. Tease Yeah, we joke about men being impatient, but we do like to be teased, too. Don't just suck cock. Lick it all over (down to the balls). Kiss it. Move your tongue all over it slowly. I often think the more time women spend with the cock not in their mouth, the better the blowjob is! Just putting your lips near to it, breathing on it, or caressing it lightly with your lips, is a massive turn on. 8. Hair Dunno about other guys, but I love to feel hair on me when I'm having a blowjob. Try your best to get your hair to brush the guy's stomach, or if you can get it to, to touch his cock. Hair is sexy and we want it to get involved with the sex as much as possible! 9. Keep it real Don't try to fake an orgasm from sucking a guy's cock. Sure, if you really get turned on and want to moan that's fine, but I've seen women actually faking an orgasm while they suck it, and it's just weird and phoney. (By the way, talking dirty doesn't count as phoney — that's coaching and all guys appreciate that!) 10. Squelch Don't be embarassed to make "squelchy sloppy" noises. The noisier, the better. If it's too quiet down there, it's a little weird. Those noises turn me on! 11. Etiquette It's amazing what a difference it makes the way a girl holds a cock when she's sucking it. If she holds it delicately with her fingers, nearer the tips, like a glass of wine, then it's very sexy and feminine, which is ideal most of the time. However, if you're getting faster, nastier and more dominant (like when you're bringing the guy to a climax), or if you're giving a handjob, then use a firm full fist and the etiquette can go out the window. (This is all a very minor detail but I think it's important.) 12. Slop Drool and spit more! Personally, I don't think you can have too much spit on a cock. If you can do it, try and get a spit trail to go from the tip of your tongue to the head of the cock. We love to see that! Not every guy does, but I personally love having my cock spat on. The nastier the better! 13. Squeeze Whether you're wearing clothes or not, putting a cock between your tits and squeezing them together is very sexy. (And I'm not even a tit lover!) 14. Focus This one's another 'little detail' but I think it's really important: focus ALL your attention on the cock (and the man it belongs to) at ALL times. The cock has to seem really special and important to you. If you start to get bored, start looking down, your mind wanders or start looking out your eye corner, this all takes away from the sense of dedication to the blowjob, and on some level is off-putting. When you give a blowjob, the cock has to be the centre of your world; you must worship the cock! In my opinion, your eyes should only ever be looking: a) at the cock b) into the man's eyes or c) be shut. Also, try to keep your face from straying too far left or right of the cock — keep 'centred' with the cock as much as possible. 15 Facialize Don't make it all about the mouth. When a guy gets a blowjob, he doesn't just want to fuck your mouth, he wants to fuck your face. Women's faces turn us on! If you can sometimes brush his cock with other parts of your face, that makes for an ideal blowjob. What we see is just as important as how it feels! 16. Teeth Generally speaking, teeth don't help make a blowjob comfortable. However, if you're going to get dominant with us, you should show more teeth and maybe do a little biting! Seeing gnashing teeth near our cock is a bit scary, which makes the blowjob exciting and arousing! 17. Playacting This is another important one for me. If you're getting dominant (or even if you're not) a 'nasty' facial expression can will get a guy very excited. Try and look as though: a) you hate him b) you are trying to hurt him c) you are taking advantage of him! (Think: 'your evil self' from a parallel universe!) I also love it when women act like I'm hurting them when I'm fucking them hard, but that's another story... 18. Explore If you can, lick under the balls and round the sides of them. We love that. Travel down towards the asshole, too. That whole area is extremeley sensitive! 19. Keep close When the cock isn't in your mouth, try to keep it as near to your face as possible at all times. If you're giving a handjob, put your mouth right up to the end of the cock and stare into his eyes. This makes for a perfect handjob! 20. Coach If he's close to orgasm, you can really help by telling him how much you want his cum. Tell him you really want it on your face, or you really want to drink it. We don't care if it's phoney — we just get off hearing the words! And to be honest by the time we actually cum, we usually don't even care what you do with the cum. It's all just talk. 21. Open wide Another thing guys love when we're close to orgasm is the sight of a nice wide open mouth (think: dental checkup) — even better with an outstretched tongue. I don't really know why we love this so much, but we definitely do! Maybe it's because it makes you look 'hungry for cum'? Again, I must stress that this stuff is just my preferences and some of it may not apply to every man, so maybe check with your boyfriend? I'm always interested to hear from other guys which of these they agree/disagree with!
by the time you memorize, then carry out, then check list your approach against dizzy's list of 21 must do's, your man may have gone looking for someone to give him a bj. Take him in your mouth, suck and swirl and swallow, swallow, swallow. If you wanna quit, quit! You're not trying for an Academy Award, for goodness sakes. Just make sure he goes first. We're not much into it after our guts have flowed out thru our peters.
LMFAO!!! You could print out the list to take with you. "Oh, you want a bj? Let me get my list!" HA HA
I thought id post up finally. Okay, id just say the most important thing for me is that the girl is enjoying it too. It can be a bit of a let down when a girl doesnt look like shes enjoying it, or doing it just to keep you happy. For me its a huge turn on when a girl geniunely wants to suck you off, to keep you and her happy. So sexy noises and an occasional naughty smile helps a lot! And lots of eye contact is also really sexy (but not all the time or it could be a bit freaky). Other than that, i agree that lots of saliva helps, and going deep (not necessarily deepthroating). A variety always works well, and it will help you decide what your guy likes. And also nothing works better than when a girl uses her initiative - getting a blowjob without asking for one is an INSTANT turn on, as soon as she would look at me in that way and knelt down to unbutton my jeans - uh! :& I find it can be a little too much if the girl keeps sucking at the same rate, so if she kinda goes a little more gentle and kinda slows down (looking into the eyes is good on climax), and basically keeps going slower until the guy has unloaded all his cum into her mouth, then slowly slide your mouth off his cock and swallow. Perfect finishing touch!
alright, lets get more tips goin! :X Not that, y'know, I ever have oral sex on my mind, oh noooo. C'mon, new tricks and tips people!
Check out the video "a very, very special BJ" in this thread - that is the way it should be done - in a loving, caring way, treating it as your most prized posession - a penis which belonging only to her and the guy it is attached to.
I personally disagree with the notion of "no teeth allowed." I'm a fan of a little light teeth dragging up and down. Not too much though, for obvious reasons, but a little scraping and/or nibbling is quite allright : )
bleh, as I've mentioned in a few other threads, that video is so not to my taste. I mean, more power to ya if a couple likes it, but it's a style that both partners need to be into for it to really work out properly if ya ask me
switching up is good thing, if you just want to make him cum play with the head then go down and take as much asyou can in your mouth, its harder to cum when all the attention is on the head, its to sensitive. i like to have my balls licked personally. and i agree that sounds are super hot. all in all just be into it!
Some of ma favorite things a girl can do while sucking is use both her hands as an extention to her mouth while she is sucking up and down. This is especially good is she isnt good at deep throating. She needs to make it all wet with her saliva while she does this as well...it makes it extra good...the wetter the better I always say
