Fellas....How IMPORTANT is it to you for your Lover to Cum?

Discussion in 'The Orgasmic Experience' started by New2Sex, Oct 22, 2009.

  1. Alegria

    Alegria Member

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    I'm in an awkward situation. Whenever my girlfriend and I have sex I can last a long enough time but she doesn't come. I know she likes it real deep (I'm 6 inches long and about 2 inches wide) and don't know if I'm hitting the right spot for her. I try giving her oral before we have sex as well but she always grabs me and forces me inside her so I hardly ever get much time to work on just her. I've gotten her a bunch of toys to use but she never wants to use them with me. She says that when we have sex her only concern is to get me off. I know she masturbates sometimes when I'm not around and I've asked her to do it in front of me but she won't and just wants me to penetrate her. Anyone have any idea of what's going on here or what I can do? I want to make her feel as pleasurable as she can but most of the time it's like I'm simply not allowed. We've been going out for a little over a year and she's never been sexually abused. What is it?
     
  2. jamaican_youth

    jamaican_youth Senior Member

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    Don't care, I know chicks are complicated like that, as long as I cum, it's all good.
     
  3. Duck

    Duck quack. Lifetime Supporter

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    Depends on how important it is to her.

    My girlfriend has never cum. She's come close, had minigasms, but anytime she's about to cum, she feels weird and stops me.
    She still loves everything we do - so, I don't see much of a problem.
     
  4. jimmyjoe1

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    Best part of sex when the girl orgasam's wouldnt be the same if she didnt come!!
     
  5. jimmyjoe1

    jimmyjoe1 toker Lifetime Supporter

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    ups cum haha
     
  6. wolf57

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    my wife cums some times very soon and easly even before me but some other times she doesnt cum or im finshed sooner . in this time i would work on her by fingering to her vagina for 5 or 10 min till she moans loadly and got to her orgasm.
     
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    my gf had the most intense orgasm I ever seen last night.. she was tightening, hips pulsing, then she tried to stop me cause it was to much for her. then something I never seen before she let out a hysterical laugh and then she was gushing... she was trembling all over to the core.... it was awesome!! :)
     
  8. heiadn27

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    Ahh....the beauty of a gusher. Isn't it amazing? And watching her body tremble and quiver like that is always the best part of it all. Well, maybe except for her soaking everything. All because of the pleasure you gave her. All women should experience this kind of orgasm. And this is why it's more important for her to come than myself.
     
  9. jo_k_er_man

    jo_k_er_man TBD

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    I ALWAYS make sure the girl cums.. no ifs ands or buts about it
     
  10. Crimson

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    i always try and make sure my girl cums before i get off.. my one ex used to squirt and she would get off well over 10 times before i did.. but my current girl i got her to orgasm 8 times in one "session"
     
  11. clitorisjunkie

    clitorisjunkie Member

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    It's mandatory.
     
  12. brack1936

    brack1936 Member Lifetime Supporter

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    My lover always cums first. It's just the rules. Then when it's my turn, she may get to cum another time :)
     

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