My boyfriend loves it when I look him in the eye when I'm giving him head. He's like obsessed with it. It's hard for me too look up the hole time though. Hahah. And I love looking him in the eye when he's on top and it's just regular sex. Not into anal...
My b/f loves eye contract and i think it's so intimate esp. when we're making love. It makes me feel like he really loves me and he's not just making love too me just to do it...but hes doing it to be as close to me annd as intimate as he can be. I love it. But sometimes he does it for too long and i feel a little uncomfortable. I usually just turn away or close my eyes and concentrate on how amazing he his and how good it feels to have him so close to me. Being gentle and soft ...treating me like a flower. I think its one of the most sensative and intimate things he can do at that time apart from telling me how beautiful i am and kissing me softly.God i love him. And we both love it when im giving him a blowjob.
I think that eye contact is ok but only in small doses, it freaks me out when held for too long. Tom x
my bf would watch when i gave him oral. i would look up sometimes & seeing him that way made me want to do more for/to him it was a total turn on. id always watch when i tease him slowing down & playing w/ him & seeing his pouty wanting face. when he was performing for me though id try not to look at him cause if we made eye contact id have the urge to start laughing (lol) sex though anything was good. & eye contact? seeing that lil snarl on his face made it all the more better
My woman loves to look at me when she's giving me oral. She wraps her tongue (she has a long tongue) around my cock and watches my face as she's doing that knowing it drives me crazy. She also looks down at me while I'm eating her yummy pussy...all the time she's moaning. I love looking into her eyes when either of us cum, but especially when we cum at the same time. MMMMM
What Bella Donna said totally turned me on. So I guess it be cool if she was into looking at me orgasm.
eye contact is damn near a necessity - my girl looks up at me all the time while she's blowing me, and I look at her while I'm going down on her. And I love looking into her eyes during sex.
A little eye contact is really nice. I love watching him going down on me, especially when he doesn't notice because he just does what he does best. But when I'm giving him oral, I love looking into his eyes for just little bits of time, because he has this look in his eyes, that he hardly ever has and it makes me melt, because his eyes are just so amazing!
It's a strange thing...when she looks up at me, I don't feel particularly dominant...It just feels like a loving moment. However, when I look up at her, I feel very submissive-- and a little uncomfortable with that.
I love giving and receiving eye contact, says a lot about the person you're with. Typically, for me, the best sex I've had is with girls who gives lots of deep, penetrating eye contact. Shy girls who keep their eyes closed bore me usually.
Plus girls who have their eyes closed make me self conscious, it's like what's wrong, do I have food on my face? Look at me!
To be quite honest, I get far more turned on by the sight of the genital activity. If having penetrative sex, be it vaginal or anal, then there's nothing I like better than the sight of my penis sliding in & out of the orifice. If involved in oral, then not only is eye contact more of a physical impossibility, due to the angle, but for such activity I always take my glasses off, and without them I'm blind as a bat, so eye contact would be impossible anyway. One thing this thread does remind me of, though, and that's one of the docu-drama films about the Beatles (I forget which one now), but John Lennon was seen to ask Brian Epstein (their Gay manager) if it hurt when a guy's penis entered the anus, to which Brian simply replied, "Of course it does, but you just have to look into their eyes" - quite a romantic quote (it may not be a word for word quote, but the paraphrasing of the intended meaning is accurate).
one of my ex's had an awesome cum face hehe. i luvd the glazed kinda shy embarassed look in her eyes as she opens them after being closed. mmmmm
I sometimes tell my wife I want an eye contact blowjob. I sit on the sofa and she sits on the floor. While she sucks we stare at each other and do some dirty talk. Looking into her eyes while I'm blowing my load is one of the most erotic of all experiences.
It usually depends on the mood of the encounter, but I do love looking into a guys eyes as he cums from a blowjob, and as I swallow. It is a a powerful moment and I love the effect it has. Other times like when I am being fucked savagely and have an explosive orgasm that rocks my entire body, or when my partner is dominating me and forces my eyes to his/hers while they use me; I love the expression of raw lust and palpable sexual passion I can see in their eyes, like a window into their soul, and knowing that it is directed at me drives me wild. But on the other hand being blindfolded sets all of my other senses on edge, like I am craving every minute detail and each sensation is so much more intense and physical, touches are electrifying and the sense of unknowing makes my body more reactive.... I guess it works well for me either way