ever been in love ?

yup. and sadly enough, it came to perhaps one of the most horrible ends imaginable. we got in a fight, he started drinking, never stopped, and the next morning i woke up to a phone call... my baby was dead. and it was valentines day for crying out loud. since then... i dont believe in love.

 

Once you REALLY experience true love for the first time, you'll know it. I never really had HALF the feelings for my ex, as i do with the girl I am with right now. It's a GREAT thing. From the very first date i had with my g/f, we BOTH knew that it we were right for each other. We both basically don't even remember that our ex's even exsist, hehe! But yea...you'll know it...

 

Aww, Diamonds...i really sorry to hear that ( *hugs* Listen, trust me...you ARE gonna find a guy who is gonna give you the upmost love, respect, and happiness you could ask for. Beleive me. Just hang in there. I know it's VERY hard to belive it NOW, but give it some time...you ARE gonna find your guy.

 

Love sucks

I think I'll stay in lust for a LONG time, with MANY different people....(when I get bored or they get clingy, I'll ditch 'em---Ohh man will I ditch them!!!)

 

i've been in love before with a couple of assholes..
but now i'm absolutely madly in love with this one guy and what i felt for those other guys is nothing compared to what i feel for him! i never knew i could love someone this much.. he's just perfect in every way, the greatest guy in the whole wide world! i couldn't be happier

 

Once... we never fought, we were together, every moment it seemed, for a little over six months... and then it faded... I lost that feeling and god damn did that hurt me... Coming down off my love for her... for seemingly no reason at all... was such hell.

I put her through even more though... I've heard meth withdrawls with better progression. God I hate that I had to do that to her.

I still wanna be her friend though, because she's my best friend... I've never been that close to anyone before, and it had been many years since I had even a close friend... I'm really scared of losing that. She's doing her best though. She's so amazing, I love everything about her... but my heart keeps me from her for some reason.

It's only been a month, almost two, but it still hurts knowing that awful truth.

But love is strong in life... I love the ground I walk on, the air I breathe in, the people I know and the people I don't. Hopefully that kind of love that books are written about will come back to me...

I fear that the most... losing my ability to love... if I can't love someone amazing as her... can I love anyone?

 

Yes, I've fallen in love with one person. And it was an amazing experience the moment it happened. I've also discovered, the only one that can truly break your heart is your true love.

 

im in love as we speak and i feel sorry for the victim, er, I mean guy...he's more then great and i adore him...hes my inspiration..
This will be the only sentimental post from me...i do have a heart, yes, its possible for me to love...

 

I love you, Shroomy Girl!!!

 

Ditto.

I think once your heart has been smashed, it takes a lot to pick up the pieces and mend it. Even then you are never the same. The scar is always there.

But when you are in that true love, the world is perfect.

 

I am so in love right now and it is the most amazing thing I have ever experienced. I thought I had been in love before but now I know I really wasnt cuz nothing I have ever had even comes close what I have now. Im so glad I have found true love...

 

y'all make me sick

...go mistress !!

 

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I fell in love at the tender age of 14 and it was the most amazing, confusing and heart wrentching experience of my life. What they say is true. When you are truely in love, you just know. You eat, sleep, and breath the other person. Being in love is unplanned, forever changing, and completely uncontrollable. You'd do anything to feel that way again when you lose it. But even though I walked away with a broken heart, even one second of knowing I was really in love was worth the 4 years of heartache it brought me. I've loved many boyfriends since but never had that spark since him. I'm not worried. I know I am completely capable of falling in love again, I just haven't found him yet.

Sighs. I've been single for 28 months and counting so I'm a bit in a lonely and sappy state of mind.

 

i've never been in love.
i had my fair share of crushes, a lot of lust.
but i have never been in love.
i would be amazed, maybe even die cuz of shock and disbelief if i ever meet anyone who actually cares enough to stay with me.
feels the same for me as i for him.
whenever i meet someone they just want me for sex, or as a best friend type of person. the boyfriends i had all turned out to be only with me for sex.

 

I have had the same problem. Granted one of those guys that was only in it for sex actually fell in love with me after he told me he'd never be with me and it was only sex. I'm not with him because I moved on, got over it, and don't feel that way about him. But for the majority of it, the one and only time I was in love, it wasn't returned. I could go out and have sex with just about any guy I wanted, to be honest. I have no problems getting laid. However, getting a guy to see me as more then just a best friend and a great lay has been extremely challenging. It's why none of my relationships have exceeded 2 months. By the two month mark, I start hinting at something more serious and they run away like I have two heads and a third nipple or something.

 

aside from the just wanting me for sex part, i was pretty much the same way for years. it wasn't until i met my ex (the one i wrote about a ways back in this thread) that i started to believe that maybe love was possible and that one day someone would love me enough to stay with me. i could go on and give examples of how he proved it to me, but frankly i dont want to tear up. and also, i know that you probably wont believe it til you experience it yourself. so... i just want to tell you to have faith in love because sooner or later that person will come along. the important thing is to give every guy a chance, because you never know if he was there, and you just didn't let him get close.

 

wow, thanks so for saying this

and weeble, yeah that two month mark, it's evil

 

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Yes...I have been in love. It was the freshest I have ever felt in my life...as a matter of fact, I thought I was in love with my baby's father, then he and I separated. As it turns out, I'm in love with a friend of mine. And I don't intend to tell him. Right now, I don't want to put any pressure on the relationship we have right now...and I don't want to lose him as a friend because he is the best friend I have and have ever had. I say, if it's meant to be, then it will happen.