Erections- A double standard

That’s all that matters.

 

A penis is the most honest organ there is. No one can hide it or pretend it isn't aroused, so why try? It's nature to do that and anyone into naturism/nudity should be ready for it and expect to see them. It would be flattering to know a man is getting that way because of me. I have no problem with it as long as it doesn't get abusive or crude just to cover any feeling of insecurity.

 

I am personally embarrassed if/when I get an erection at a nude beach. Yes, it happens. I mean you’re out in the sun and cool breezes of nature just laying on your back ... it’s gonna happen even if you are not having sexual thoughts. But I hate it because it introduces the idea sexuality into something we nudists/naturists are always trying to sell as non-sexual.

The easy solution is to flip over and go buns up so the erection is hidden until it goes away. But still it’s awkward. I much prefer participating in more vigorous naturist activities where all the blood flow is going to your muscles and your penis takes on that Statue of David size. Which is completely non-threatening to anyone who may see it.

 

Exactly, an erection is the most natural thing in the world, don't try to hide mine when on the beach but then I don't exactly thrust it upon people, if they look and enjoy my erection then happy days

 

I do not mind seeing men, teens or pre teens with erections. I have seen plenty in my visits to nudist resorts an beaches. I have seen in Europe, erections are more common. Men and boys do not hide them, and other nudists do not pay any attention to them. I myself have experienced arousal at times, but I chose to hide it with a towel. Now at my age, I do not get erections any more, so I can walk about freely

 

I personally enjoy the view but I can understand peoples view, especially with family sites as opposed to adult only venues, although these days kids see it all and more on the internet anyway. As long as it's not paraded and no 'activity' is going on in public then it's just part of nature.

 

I agree, a erection is normal but in a family venue best to be discreet about it

 

I no not think an erection is anything to be ashamed of. But, if it happens, you should not draw attention to it and try to be discreet in family nude venues. If all adults, just go with the flow and don’t flaunt it.

 

What I find funny about this topic is that whenever it comes up in nudist circles, no one ever mentions that it's honestly quite visible when someone with a vulva is aroused. I've chided plenty of my cis-female friends about it when it happens to them if they'd already teased me about whether I'm going to get an erection when we were first getting undressed. All in good fun between friends of course. Nothing mean spirited. But confuses me to no end how any adult cis-females have made it that far into life without noticing how very noticeable it is from any reasonable distance.

 

Let’s reformulate the question…

“For the women:
Women get a bad wrap from social media and society in general regarding nipple erections. As women we all know that. We are told to cover it up or go for a swim. It’s hypocritical to be at a nude resort or nude beach where everybody is naked to begin with and express dislike in seeing nipple erections.

“For the men out there:
Why would you not want to see a woman’s nipple erection at a nude resort or campground if she is not touching you with it? Secretly, I believe men like seeing it, but are prudish to some degree.”

Yes, it is humorous because then you’d get the comments that nipples should be covered up because there is no sexuality at any nudist resort and erect nipples can’t be tolerated.

Suddenly the conversation switches. Wait, just because a woman’s nipples get hard doesn’t mean she’s sex crazed. Perhaps a towel brushed against them, maybe even a breeze stimulated her nipples to become hard.

How insane does the conversation need to become?

Purists should go equally apoplectic over erect nipples as erect penises. But, the plain fact is both nipples and penises can become erect for non-sexual reasons. So, if you are going to have a fit over one, you should have a fit over the other.

Erections happen to both men and women, and you really can’t say what the cause is. Now, a guy stroking himself, or a woman rolling/twisting/tugging on her nipples, IS that overt sign. Resorts can prohibit that. And it definitely should be prohibited where there are children present.

My wife and I are pretty much libertines. Human beings are sexual by nature and we find being nude and sexual a mutually satisfying experience.

The nudist that tries to separate sexuality from what are clearly sexual beings is fading away. That philosophy doesn’t even make sense.