Did dry anal with my girlfriend once. It was a chore to say the least. If she thinks lube is too messy, at least try a little massage oil. Sent from my DROIDX using Tapatalk 2
hahaha i'm not sleeping with her anymore and i dont save her lubricant too. i mean i did it with her in the past. sorry i'm bad at grammar.
Well, when playing with myself I'll often use a little lube, but I also often just use a little spit. I prefer taking it slow and using the natural juices in the ass (cuz there are some if you let it build up) than lubing all up in there. But 100% dry anal is hardly even possible, however, if you got it in your dick would get a little wet and it would work more and more. Theres just really no reason to even try going totally dry.
That hurts both ways. I'm lucky we both get pretty lubed up naturally so we've got it to work with. hehe Though one long night we turned to grape seed oil. It wasn't too messy and didn't stay overly oily.
I have done it twice that I remember. One time with a woman I met at a party. We both got fairly drunk, started making out and went back to her place. As we were fucking I started to finger her ass and she indicated she wanted me in her ass. I gave her ass a lick to slick it up a bit and she said "Doesn't that gross you out?" I said no baby, I'm just tryin' to lube things up a bit but whatever you want. She took it like a champ w/o any lube numerous times that night until we took a break after she pooped on the sheets. Another time my girlfriend and I were lying naked on a wooded streambank. She was super horny and she loved anal. She got on her knees and we just slowly worked it in.
Hehe. Ah yes, a thorough licking! Didn't occur to me to mention that, I do that till the cows come home drives her crazy.
Rapists get away with just one hork and blood..... That's basically what I think of when someone says dry anal. I've done it with just spit on two occasions but it was a lot of spit, fingering and my spit is thicker than most. It still was not that comfortable and I had a slight tear in the frenulum.
The fact you didn't even use the term fuck buddy, and just said she's you're friend makes me jealous. I wish I had a girl like that. That you could just say "hey wanna try anal?" To think if I were gay, it would actually be that straight forward! It shouldn't be too hard to convince her that she'll need to be lubed. After a few seconds of trying it dry, she realise she was wrong. It's funny because there's a far bigger consequence to going it pure dry, than there is to making a mess anyway! How do people get raped in prison anyway if they're dry?
On the question of lube: Buggery has a long history. A longer history than artificial lubes. Therefore, there must be a pre-industrial solution to the lube problem. Does anyone know what it was?
Given the vintage of this post I doubt the OP is even here anymore but I'll put my $.02 in. I've given dry anal on numerous occasions with no ill effects for either partner. It is more work since you are relying more on foreplay than other external ingredients and it isn't for amateurs. First you have to give a lot of attnention and foreplay to really relax the muscles and mind of the reciever. I mean tons of foreplay followed by excruciatingly slow penetration. Be prepared to be there for at least an hour your first time as you refine your technique/communication with your partner it will take less time. Second you have to have established trust and communication. You really have to read/listen to each others verbal and body language. you have to listen when her mouth says stop and pay attention when her body says stop and adjust. If you can do those 2 things and sometimes start with a little vaginal for lube and take it very easy it can be done. C/S, Rev J
And even with the above tips from the Rev, significant size difference, shape, and other physical and mental factors can still make it a Bad Idea. Lube is love.