When I was in college I befriended an older man that I worked for at a bank part time. I was in college at the time, and he was a manager about ten years older than I and married. We often whent out drinking on the nights we worked together. On several occasions when we were both drunk, he would try to get me to play with his cock, and eventually suck it. When my hand went into his pants for the first time, I was shocked at the size of his cock. I had been in a lot of communal showers by then for high school gym classes and sports teams. So, I had seen a lot of cocks, but nothing that big. I didn't know anything about dominant men, but I knew that he was persistent. I did manage to resist his coercion, but his cock did end up in my mouth on at least one occasion. Eventually we had a drunken threesome with his wife, and she forced me to suck his cock, but I resisted. Several years later after a period of losing contact with each other, I succumbed somewhat willingly to his advances. Basically, we were drunk on wine and stoned on pot. My undiscovered submissive side came out, and I let him suck my cock, but I didn't reciprocate the first time. Eventually, we became regular partners, and he gradually brought me along and "showed me the ropes" as far as gay sex was concerned. He also introduced me to the "gay scene" as he referred to it. It was an education in many ways that I am eternally grateful for. Again, I became submissive with him, and let him show me the way, but didn't know that role. That knowledge came along later.
Early on in my bisex life, I encountered a guy in an ABS video booth who started talking tough. I had no idea about the dom/sub game. I damned near punched him, but chose to walk away. I still dont get it. Wife wants me to spank her and treat her rough. I try, but it ruins my hardon.
You might want to give her the spanking while she’s giving you a blowjob..far reach but I’m sure will help!