Does your s/o like to watch you masturbate?

How is that fair on you, you must be confused what to do. Surely your allowed to satisfy yourself when needed. Does he masturbate?

 

Yes my SO likes to watch. And I watch her in return.

 

Of course. My girl makes me when I get too wound up.

 

As I am older (60), masturbation has become an essential part of sex b/c my dick won't stay hard just from intercourse. (I don't like Viagra b/c of all the side effects.) My wife obligingly helps me masturbate by tickling my balls, playing with my anus, sicking on my nipples, tickling me and (like this morning) spanking me. Sometimes she just sits back and watches me and it really turns me on performing for her. I can totally let loose and be vulnerable--panting and wacking away vigorously. Lately, one of our favorite pastimes is that she lies on her back on the bed with her head at the edge of the bed. I straddle her and jerk off while she licks my balls. It's a great position because I can see her naked body splayed out in front of me. She likes it because she's quite comfortable. A twist on this is to have her lie lengthwise down the edge of the bed and lick my balls while I jerk off standing next to her, this allows me to reach over and rub her clit at the same time. One last thing, occasionally she doesn't have time for sex and I'm horny, so I will jerk off in the bathroom while she gets ready to go out. I've done this for a very long time. If I start jerking off, she will notice and remove her top to give me something nice to look at while she does her hair and makeup. Sometimes we'll have a quickie afterwards so I can cum; other times I just have blue balls until she gets home and can take care of business. I hate to cum from masturbating; it's much more pleasurable for me to come inside her.

 

Cman - you might try this - you lay down on the bed she straddles you as if you were going to do cowgirl. Instead of taking you inside her she slides herself up and down your shaft. This will stimulate you and her clit. You may end up cumming all over yourself and she may cum too.

 

Yes this is great! Highly recommend

 

In answer to the original question, yes. We spend lots of time apart so masturbating together is a big part of our lives

 

Absolutely: The gliding back and forth on my wet erection is also a huge turn on and can even be done to a flaccid penis with similar results if you are not always able to sustain your erection, as all the sensitive parts are still involved so the pleasure is there as well. Sex doesn't have to end at the first hint of erectile challenges.

For the original Question: My wife and I have shared mutual masturbation for years she watches me I watch her and it's a definite thrill. She will often take me in her mouth as I am nearing orgasm and I finish in her mouth. She also loves that and it will usually tip her over the top to climax as well.
We even had an odd occasion once to let another couple (strangers) watch her masturbate and vice versa. I must say it was a huge turn on for us both and them.

We are raised with such taboo imbedded in us that anything that causes sexual pleasure is bad and it really is a backwards approach to a healthy sex life. Hence the fears people hold of ever sharing that with their partners. We can only hope the generations to follow will be allowed to explore such expressions without the shame and ridicule. It can be a very vulnerable moment to share but isn't that what loving each other to the fullest is all about. Understanding what makes the other one tick, their turn ons (and turn offs) and finding what the two of you can explore together in an intimate loving moment, without a fear of exposing what really does it for you, and understanding what really does it for them. Avoids all the guess work that leads to unsatisfying sex...

 

found almost all my ex gfs liked to watch me wank and cum .

 

my wife has sent me videos of her dildoing herself with her 7 inch dildo few times. Once when I was away on a stag trip and me and few friends all watched it. She fucked herself pretty hard and squirted all over the bed. Told her when I got home. Anger turned into a very steamy night.

 

Love it - you may want to be sure she's onboard before having movie nights with the buddies but like they say "It's easier to get forgiven than get permission" and as you discovered what would have likely been a definite NO NOT EVER - became a turn on and maybe something she have never imagined to be a turn on in past... Good that she has an open.... "mind" as well.

 

No, she has never watched me masturbate and doesn't want to. On the other hand (so to speak), she does watch when she gives me a hand job.

 

Anger turned into a steamy night. So she was okay with it in the end? Please, tell us more...

 

I usually wake up before my wife and start masturbating. She doesn't need to watch but loves feeling the movement in the bed when she wakes up and knows I am jacking off. I am usually asleep when she masturbates. She wears her panties and uses her massager over her panties as she doesn't like the direct touch. She also focuses on coming really quickly. So there really isn't any visual for me. Apart from all that, pussy is what turns her on, cock is what turns me on.

 

Yes she was super turned on after I had told her how much he loved watching it and the things he said about her. He's the same guy we have regular sex with now.

 

We do mutual all the time.

 

That has turned into one of her favoreite things. She told me that just watching me stroke my cock was boring , but she always loved to watch me cum. I started using a toy to try to make it more exciting to watch and she couldn't resist watching. The toy in my ass as I jerked off fed into one her kinky fantasies.

 

My wife likes to watch when she’s isn’t in the mood to play. Sometimes she joins in and plays with my balls as I stroke. Other times she likes it for me to cum in her and then she gets her toy out and plays with my cum with her fingers as she masterbates.

 

Alas my wife has no interest in watching me masturbate: she even told me how unattractive she would find it. It’s a shame, because I really enjoy watching her masturbate, though the only time she is really prepared to do that is when my cock is inside her and she wishes to cum whilst being penetrated.

 

I mean. She has caught me a few times. Only because I let her catch me. Then she'll watch and we always end up having sex.

 

My wife loves watching me. She loves it even more when I send her vids. She must have a dozen on her phone. Gets her all horned up and bonus for me, I get to cum again later that night while doing her!

I love to watch her too. More than she knows. She's a bit self conscious though. We're working on that, even after 20yrs of marriage. She did make a sweet vid for me once. I loved it even though it was a bit grainy. She used nearly every toy (including our big one) and vibrated out many, many orgasms!

We don't watch each other masterbate too often though in the grand scheme of things. It's fun, but we'd rather being doing each other more times than not.