Does Sexy = Physically Attractive?

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Back on topic.

I kind of see the internet as like a new version of the corresponding to someone through the mail.

You get to know the inner person. Someone can be sexy before you meet them.

It is a deeper connection. IMO.

 

I kind of see the internet as like a new version of the corresponding to someone through the mail.

You get to know the inner person. Someone can be sexy before you meet them.

It is a deeper connection. IMO.[/quote]

hmmmmmm see you have my curiousity way up. gonna drive me nuts.

 

Now back on topic.

I also think a good looking person with a bad personality is a turn off.

 

Mais, ouais! Je suis super!

I love nerds. I'll just say that. I like the intellectual nerdy kind who is just the guy next door. Nothing flashy, nothing special but everything to me.

 

Of course. People's attitudes, heart, actions and deeds, brains and connection with themselves is way more sexy to me then any outward appearance.

confidence is super sexy....unless it is bordering on cocky.

personality is everything to me.

 

yes. i think its more with women than with men however. some women exhude raw sexuality without being strikingly beautiful.
While I am not a dog, I aint the prettiest, but have never had a problem with men since Im told I have this, and I quote from the current dick "this come and get it Look to me". that and the fact that my personality rawks.

 

just for semantic's sakes, sexy is attractive. physical beauty isn't always sexy.

 

word. Ive seen and met plenty beautiful people who turned ugly as soon as they opened their mouth.

 

yeah. and sometimes, they're pretty, but do nothing for you, even if they are nice. they're just totally uninteresting and unsexy.

 

this is a toughie

i'll get back to answering later

 

Vapid, Is the all encompassing word we're looking for methinks.

 

nah. not so much vapid, all the time. just...not compatible, i guess.

 

I can say someone has "sexy characteristics" in a "logical " way - eg if theyre too old for me , but have something that I think others may find "magnetic".

But someone can look terrific , but can be utterly ugly on the inside- and that is horrible.And other things can invalidate a sexy appearance eg pain up the axxx character etc.

I can only find someone attractive if they meet the physical criteria 100%.
Some people think thats "shallow" of me.I think theyre being stupid: )

 

i suppose their opinion of your standards could be based on whether or not they think you're attractive enough to have such rigid standards.

 

No.Cos they know I'm extremely handsome And modest; )

Its actually about the "married for life" vs the Rod Stewart "trade in , every few years approach".
The thought of sharing a bed with someone I no longer fancied just makes me feel ill.
But alot of society cant accept that for some reason.Its like I'm doing sthg "bad"- why?

 

lol. attractive is purely a matter of perspective. i don't think staying perpetually single or rotating your bed-cattle is bad, especially at your age. i hope you're rich, though.

 

yeah, more or less. I'm just an animal

 

..Can pay the bills thx ; )Hope you're attractive ; )( nudge nudge) LOL

Actually , I think attraction has lots of scientific aspects too.
In the past , I've momentarily recognised a face in say a bar as "attractive" before recognising I know the person.
Maybe I'm just a typical sex obsessed Scorpio...: )

 

a decent looking gal can zoom up the attractiveness scale and be very sexy if she is a good conversationalist. keeping me intrigued about her, while i talk is quite sexy.

but someone who looks like a 10 can be quite fucking ugly to the point where i wouldn't even use her to clean up the bar after drinks have been spilt

 

i am attractive enough.