Does Sexy = Physically Attractive?

Of course.

 

I am the polar opposite.

To me, that is playing games.

I am MUCH more attracted to (on a friend level too) people who open up with me.

 

I like people to open up too. but damn maybe it is the challenge of finding the things out that people are so evasive about that makes it sexy to me.
lol......once the challenge is gone, I probably wouldnt think they were so sexy afterall.

 

Sexy is in the personality and how a person carries themselves.

 

Oh I totally understand why you find that to be a turn on. I think that is normal. I just am not the game playing type (probably because I really can't win at this point...).

 

I can win games, but I usually win in horrible demoralizing ways, so game playing isn't for me.

I don't fight fair or pretty, but I don't fight often either.

 

Yes , it goes both ways too,, a person with a really shitty personality,sense of humor, aura,attitude and vibe can be in PEAk physical condition and have lovely features -
will become completely repulsively unattractive to me.

.....but an odd not typical outwardly attractive person with a great attitude,sense of humor (ect) - will be very sexy.

 

i am a pretty open person for the most part. very open about saying things about myself.

and yes babyhellfire, the most beautiful sexiest person can totally be repulsive by a bad attitude.

 

Sometimes there is a reason for someone being reclusive.

How is it a game when I have no real contact with others?

 

I can't tell you how often I have been razzed for not finding a certain female attractive because she looks like a supermodel but acts like a bee-otch.

I suppose if it is a one night stand you are after, then that's fine. But if you want something long term, go for someone you can talk to. Someone who makes you smile. Not someone who's looks will impress people who don't know you.

 

I have no idea how you took my comments, but they weren't intended to be a judgment of you in any way shape or form.

 

I'm a very patient person. I waited and had spoken to a forum member for geez, I think almost five years without knowing anything really about him. Never even saw a picture of him until about three months ago. he was always sexy in my mind and it was confirmed.
Just sayin.

And sometimes people have no choice but to be reclusive. But then again doesnt being reclusive kind of suck after awhile? I would get so stir crazy

 

I did not know how to take them. That is why I asked.

You are totally cool in my book.

 

I have found that talking to someone via the net, and getting to know each other well, you tend to not focus so much on the physical when you finally do meet.

 

:cheers2:

 

i think one of the sexiest men i've ever met wasn't all that attractive.

 

very very true. Although, I must say that while I have spoken on the phone with a couple of people over the years from the net, i have never actually met any of them in person.

 

That's because none of us truly exist.

 

Thanks!

 

but of course.