It definitely gives a whole different perspective to sex. Literally. As a female I've never had a bird eyes view of my pussy. In watching porn, I've seen many many now, and how that whole area can be stimulated with different people, different methods, different appliances, and any combination. There is no way now I can just look at sex as love....
Girls are sexual on a lot of different levels. Guys are mostly only visual. Watching porn for me stimulates me on that visual level that guys operate on. And I have a more intense orgasm with the sights and sounds (please, no cheesy dialogue) of what's going on in the porn. I can't be there to have a close up look of a big penis entering my vagina. But I sure get off seeing that close up in a porno. And I love to watch missionary from below and see a big set of balls bouncing off of an asshole.
I get it - you get off on the visual aspect just like a guy does. What parts of a scene make you orgasm the most? My favorites are missionary, when the guys starts going faster and is about to cum, then pulls out and shoots on the woman's body. Especially love it if the woman continues gyrating like she did during sex, watching her do that while the guy is cumming.