Does Orgasm From Fingering Necessarily Mean Satisfaction On Women's Part?

Thank you for your input. To be honest, yes my urologist did tell me that, and also I didn't delete that other post. Most probably it got deleted because it was similar to this post.

 

If a medical doctor told you that....find a new Dr, there is NO truth in that at all.

 

how do you know buzzgunner likes big women?

 

my mistake, correcting it. meant wife, not wide; thank you for pointing out.

 

It seems there's not much hope anymore. I tried calling her yesterday at 11:30 AM, no response, got her voicemail. In the evening, around 7:10 PM, I texted asking whether she had received my call. No response to that also. I'm really not sure what happened. We first met Wednesday at a a bar, hanged out (and kissed) the next Friday, and then she came over for a dinner into my apartment, which led to mutually consensual sex. During our first meeting alone on Friday, we talked about lots of interesting things, like Gods, religions, spirits, meditation that I've never talked about on the first date. She's educated, practices meditation/yoga, and is a writer/director of short movies. She's also funny.

I'm just not sure she's feeling embarassed because she opened up herself too fast to me (but we're in France and she's French), or she just wanted a hook up?

 

Aw That's a shame V

I wouldn't say she is embarrassed to be honest ...
It could be that she was looking for a hook up tho

But look, chalk it up to experience ,..
Maybe you need to see your urologist a few more times and try sort yourself out before you have sex with any more women .,.....

You seem to be having a few problems including self confidence and performance anxiety ..

I hope you can get these things seen to ...

Good luck with your future endeavours

 

Why do you keep saying your in france and she's French?

 

Yeah, who gives a shit where you both are.

 

It's because in France, having sex too early while dating is okay. Unlike North America, there aren't many dating customs here or in Europe in general. In the US, having sex on a first date is a no-no for a good relationship. IN France/parts of Europe, it's not the case.

 

So you are saying all European girls are easy?

 

That's fine.
You said it two times like no one heard the first time though and that was the annoying part.
I hear but if keep repeating I don't hear or take seriously anymore.
Good luck to you.

 

Where did ya come up with that silly factoid?

You sound a bit like a another poster that was here....azitact or something...synthetic marijuana dude.

 

Well .... We kinda are lol. (Jk)

Although that is a bit of a generalisation

In France they do considered themselves to be sexually superior and they are well into anything goes ...
They are very sexually liberated ...
Which makes me think that she wouldn't mind taking and telling you what she wants /likes


If I were you I would give up the ghost on this one ..

 

I gave up already on this one. I'll never be calling or texting her again. I do wonder what it's exactly she was after. I mean she strikes me as a decent lady. And I initiated everything, starting talking, asking out, kiss, sex. She could've just told me if she wanted to be friends with benefits (or in France, as they say "sex friend"). But I just don't play. And I did treat her very nicely. She asked whether she had to bring anything fordinner, I said no. Plus I thought, at 44, women are more clear and honest. While this didn't contadict that, but I've lessons to learn.

Thanks for your comments!

 

I agree it is crummy to not respond to someone. I bet if she had texted you after the date and you did not reply, she would have been hurt. She could have texted you she just isn't interested, but for some it is easier to ghost.

I do agree, you shouldn't contact her again. Just leave it be.

 

Thank you for your sympathy! I AM hurt, and sex was not the only thing I was seeking, to be absolutely honest! The thing is: I saw her last Monday when she was leaving my apartment. I asked her whether I can call her sometime. She: "Yes, okay". Wednesday texted in the morning "i'm thinking of of calling you tonight, say 7 Pm is fine?", 4 hours back, she texted "I'm going out tonight, so not possible. We can talk tomorrow (=Thursday=yesterday)?" So yesterday, I called around 11:30, no reply. At 7:10 PM, I texted, "hi, have you received my call?" It got delivered, but no reply! I just don't know what I've done to deserve that treatment. She could have just said she's no more interested instead of asking me to talk yesterday?

 

A simple yes or no works wonders.
Let's not get lost in all the other bull shit.
You seem to be mesmerized by someone.
She seems to me by what you write take it or leave it but there are are always so many variables.
Maybe she is just as insecure as you so she plays
games and this I can infer as when you asked her a question a simple yes or no would be real. Her response spelled game playing to me.

 

You've consulted a male urologist, a sexologist (gender unkown) and the internet.

Why not try asking your 44 year old friend what she wants?

Its entirely possible that she is some kind of weirdo whose enjoyment is different than what it is supposed to be.

 

well, she's ignoring him for one thing...

 

I get off quit well when fingered properly. It usually starts out slow yhen winds up wit his fist inside me.