Does kissing make gay sex more erotic

It's just not for me. Ive been in threesomes with both women and men and I do enjoy getting a bj from our male friend as well as returning the favor. I just can't bring myself to kiss a guy. I love kissing women and after amost 50 years, I still love kissing my wife.I just cant get into it and as much fun as it is to suck his cock and take his big cum loads in my mouth and on my face, kissing puts a halt to the experience. Kissing in an emotional response with deep emotional feelings of love, that I have no desire to share with any guy. I tried , because he was into it, but it was an emotional show stopper.Even my wife, who promoted and encouraged my bi experiences doesn't like to see me get emotional with kissing, but deep throating our friend and taking a big load on my face, is Thrilling for both of us.

 

Short answer to the question does kissing make it hotter? -Absofuckme-lutely!

 

No, unfortunately I haven't yet had another man insert his cock into my ass, but I dream about it every day. I'm sure if the pandemic had not happened, I would have lost my bottom virginity by now, because I was actively looking for it almost right away after breaking up with my girlfriend in December 2019. Before hooking up with her in 2016, even though I fantasized about getting fucked, I never had that feeling with any guy I was having sex with. I would just top. But I think there has been a shift in me through that very rocky three-year relationship, and I feel now more than before open to anything with another man. But who knows, I'll just have to see whether I meet that right guy to open my ass for him.

If you're single, then I definitely recommend that you try getting naked with a guy or guys and see how things go. You will never know for sure whether you like it, or what you like, without trying it for real. I can tell you from experience, fantasies can be very deceptive. But if you're married, then that's much more complicated, and you'll have to make that decision yourself. I personally couldn't cheat when I was with my girlfriend and risk devastating her. But that's just me.

 

Yes, I agree - never thought I'd go for it, but when he initiated it, I loved it.

 

Kissing makes any sex more intimate and erotic, no matter the partners involved.
For most of my life I had no interest in kissing a man. Then after one man introduced me to being his anal bottom, he fucked me face to face, between my legs, and he kissed me hard when he was cumming in me. I blew my load with him and haven't looked back since. If a kiss will put you over the edge then do it. With most guys I just want to suck them off and be done. For the rare guy that knows how to get between my legs I will willingly open my mouth for his kiss.

 

Excellently worded!

 

I just wanted to tell you how incredibly sexy I also find your words. I've been reading your post over and over again, while edging, and I am so ready to give myself to another man who wants to get between my legs like your lover did.

 

Had the same affect on me!

 

I never tried, but watching porn where they kiss sensually are some of my favorite scenes.

 

I can attest that with the right guy, kissing helps get each person over the edge with mutual stroking, also. Kissing can be sensual and arousing in the early stages, but then really convey that sense of urgency when either guy is close to orgasm. That communication can cause one person's orgasm to trigger the orgasm of the other person, especially when both lovers are naked and in close full-body contact.

Just like with kissing women, good oral hygiene and close attention to body language are important. And, a lot of guys simply do not associate sex with affection or sensuality. I personally prefer a more complete experience.

 

I’ve never been a fan of kissing another man. I guess that’s the extent of what I won’t do. But I could imagine the intimacy makes it hotter

 

Yes, definitely more erotic. Love being kissed.

 

It's just cumming without kissing ... Don't want to be with a guy who won't kiss me.. and love to kiss him with my cum on his lips

 

Always,

 

Adds to the climax, and recovery..

 

And to the feeling of togetherness I imagine, which is the point of sex I believe.

 

For me, kissing not only makes sex more erotic, but also makes all other aspects of life more erotic. If I know a guy or woman well enough to share this act of affection, we kiss regularly.

Can't understand why most of the rest of the world would not want to experience this closeness in their daily lives.

 

Simply. If I like you enough to put my dick in your mouth or vice versa .. why would I not put my tongue in your mouth