does it really feel that much better w/ no condom

Discussion in 'Birth Control' started by Lina876, Jul 7, 2012.

  1. Barry Thrift

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    Yes as long as she is on the pill or you have a draw full of condoms.
     
  2. Dax

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    Condom / no condom ... Who gives a flying flamingo? 99.99% of guys don't know their ass from the elbow once they on the job so to speak. Any guy in the midst of an orgasm isn't thinking of anything except: "Please God don't let this stop!"
     
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  3. chad33705

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    condoms suck.

    enough said
     
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  4. Oldiebutgoodie

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    I was single a lot of years. Only 2 out of 80 or so (lost count after 62) required a condom.

    A story: This one girl was more of a fuck buddy. She had a great body, nice looking with a lot of ridges in her "poosy" like an old time washboard. BUT (always a but it seems), she had terrible table manors. Chewed he food with her mouth open, talked with food in her mouth, farted while eating, etc. BUT she was great at sex. On our first date I got a kiss, then grinding, then dropped my pants. She said "OK but you got to wine and dine me first", which I did and we did later. If I was not in some sort of serious relationship, I'd give her a call. The same rules always applied. Seems like sometimes the guy has to pay for it one way or the other.
     
  5. jj07

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    they were responsible for birth control? less than 5%
    condom usage seems very low for a single dude..
    STDs? Pregnancies?
     
  6. Oldiebutgoodie

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    Made sure the girl was on BCs. I even offered to pay for them if necessary. There was a 1 day after pill that was available just in case emotions got the best of me/us. Still available last time I checked OTC at Walmart though I am married now and don't sleep around.
    One time I almost got caught with 18 years of child support. This really good looking girl that was a real bitch want a baby but no husband. A friend of hers warned me after about the 3-4th go-round. I had this same friend that told me this girl was pregnant and ask me if it was me. It was this MD at Tampa General hospital. Close call. That is when I got real serious about birth control. To those guys and gals out there, pulling out is not birth control. Real risky.
    I suppose I was lucky as these times were in the pre-AIDS era. Only STD without a long time cure was Herpes. This was not real common and usually easy to check for if you looked. I'd still say not today if the girl was in an active stage and we would have alternative sex:blush:. AIDS really was and is scary. I would not live the lifestyle I had 40 years ago.
    I caught chlamydia once. Treated with tetracycline 4x a day for 10 days.
     
  7. soulcompromise

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    I've caught things too. Herpes was the worst! :tonguewink: But the other thing I caught it hurt to pee, but only like 3 times or maybe a little more than that. I didn't get it checked out that time.

    But I think it's not worth it to have sex without a condom. There are soooo many things that can happen that it's a little overwhelming and decidedly (for me) not worthwhile. So, no... I don't think it feels that much better. :sob:
     
  8. Barry Mandelay

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    I'm a big advocate for condom use plus I really can't tell the difference between wearing one or not. I'm the exception as one study shows only 12% of men can wear a standard condom comfortably so it's no wonder why it feels better without. Another study has these results:
    • 25% complained that condoms are too tight
    • 15% reported issues with condoms that were “too loose.”
    • 44% of survey participants claimed condoms had either slipped off or broke during use.
    • 50% felt that condoms, in general, do not fit well.
    The FDA in the US has approved more sizes that can be sold. Yes, prior to 2015 condom size in the US was limited by the FDA as they are considered a medical device. But now they're available in lighter, thinner, a plethora of different sizes, and are lubricated for better pleasure. Knowing how to use one and knowing that it provides the needed protection from disease makes sex for me so much better. I don't worry about pregnancy but it takes the worry from disease away. I do have an occasional partner where we go bare but I also have others where using one is a must. It's exciting to watch my partner roll the condom over my penis because I now know it wont be long before I'm deep inside her pussy. It's worth using them to avoid disease if you are fucking multiple partners or having casual sex. I can see where a lot of views being correct that bare back fucking feels better. But I only advise this if you and your partner are exclusive to each other, are disease free, and can support raising a child together if there's a chance of pregnancy.

    Here's some points on getting condoms that fit.
    1. Get your condoms in the correct size. Measure your penis and use charts that are available for selecting one.
    2. Spend the money for the better brands. Better condoms make for better sex. Have you ever ridden in a Lincoln after riding in a Ford? Higher price = better ride.
    3. Lubricate your cock before sliding the condom on. Add a few drops to the head. The lube allows the condom to move over the head and shaft adding to the pleasure.
    4. With the extra lubrication there's a lesser possibility of breakage. If the condom breaks it defeats the purpose.
     
  9. zorro69

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    Condom works both against preventing pregnancies as well as a protection against most forms of STDs... but are not 100% guaranteed...without it of cos the feeling and sensation is much better n enjoyable than having to put one on...but nowadays they hv those very thin ones, the 0.002s, that is as good as not wearing one
     
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    Having sex without condoms is only good for those husbands n wives who are faithful to each other in a monogamous marital relationship, the husband having to wear one only to prevent an unwanted pregnancy for his wife
     
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  11. zorro69

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    There is still a little risk of pregnancy in this withdrawal method...sperms already exist in pre-cum...all u need is just one little notti sperm that swims up to her uterus to get her pregnant...pregnancies that happen this way are called "pregnant by accident" if i m not worng...
     
  12. John1971

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    Go put a rubber glove - like those some wear for washing dishes - on your hand. And go feel several objects around your home. Even go and run your gloved hand under warm to borderline water from the faucet for a few seconds. Then go imagine that on your genitals. `nuff said.

    I don't use condoms with my wife because she had her tubes tied years ago. But one of my fantasies is to be on the receiving end of unprotected anal sex, with internal ejaculation. That'll never happen, because there's no one I know who I would absolutely trust to shoot their load inside me unprotected. (I'm an anal virgin. Don't see any point to experiencing it with a condom.)
     
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    I had a friend that asked me for a cream pie. I gave it to her. It took me about an hour to bury it in her. She sure grinned at me when we past on the street in town and acted like she did not know me.
     
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    The sex is better without a condom but I would rather wear one than get an STD or pregnancy. I think it's entirely reasonable to go without the condom and many couples do. I'm always afraid of girls on the pills because it's so easy to mess up.
    To the OP: remember that our semen is nearly ALWAYS ready to get you pregnant. If you don't want your boyfriend cumming in you, he can deal with the condom.
     
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  16. lapush

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    I stay among friends that have a IUD or on the pill.
    I'll comment later about the near bad error/chance with Pull Out with someone that I knew for a long time.
     
  17. Barry Thrift

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    Pull out is ok but with risks, ask any women who has got pregnant from it and ask them if they thought it was such a good idea?
     
  18. starfield03

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    Do not risk it with the withdrawl method!

    It's entirely possible for a little semen to come out before ejaculation starts. I have seen it happen dozens of times during masturbation, which means it had to travel up... who knows what happens when gravity can assist.
     
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  19. TrudginAcrossTheTundra

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    The biggest risk with the 747 method (pulls out just in time) is that it's just too tempting to push it deep that one last time, it feels way too damn good, and you trip over the edge just as you hit bottom and it happens too fast to hold it in long enough to complete the backstroke.

    Lapush has the right idea, friends with IUDs or on pills. Just gotta feel they're trustworthy that they're selective enough about the guys they enjoy so as not to contact and spread an STD.
     
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  20. zorro69

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    But the problem with the pill is that if taken too often it could lead to infertility and difficulty to conceive later on in life for the woman :(
     

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