Do you have friends?

i hate the conventional idea of 'friends'
why mut we have 'best friends' and 'friends' and 'enemies' and stuff. why do people have to be classed under things.

you either like spending time with someone or not. there are many dimensions of friendship, and each should have 6 billion possible levels of friendship, not 2 or 3 or something.

I mean ive got heaps of people id call a 'mate' or 'school friend' but i wouldnt hang out with them much socially. at the same tiem i hang out socially with various people i dont really think of as being high up in friendhsip scale at all.

i think best friends for me are jsut the ones where we both arent afraid to trust eachother. ive had various friends who i could say that about them.

at the moment ive got tonnes of peers caus i go to school but only like 5 guys who i love hangin out with
thats guys, for girls, ive got a few girlfriends, and a group that i hang o9ut with for the last few years too but most girl-friends are party aquaintances

and as for fuckin friends, if theyre hot, then i would. and have many dreams where i do

 

yeppers!

 

there are people that sometimes talk to me, message me, or call me to ask me about something. but i dont care for them. there are people i see regularly and they are somewhat likeable but mostly i see them to pass the time. i have one really close girl friend and one close guy friend. funnily enough they hate each other. might not be a problem anymore since the guy has been acting really weird lately, im wondering if he's hiding something from me, oh well, maybe soon we wont be friends anymore. pity.

 

tigerlily:

See I am the opposite...I am not a homebody..I get depressed and stuff when I have to sit home all day on the weekends...I am much happier going out with my boyfriend to be around a lot of people I dont know instead of sitting at home...like I am ass backwards, If things are quiet it makes be tense, I relax more when things are lound and hectic, I dont like being alone, ever...I am much happier being in a loud loud area with a lot of people I dont know (or do know) then I ever am just sitting at home...Even when I bathe I need some other sound...I think I just dont like being alone with my own thoughts

 

yea i realy suck when regular things are required to mantain things ......but in a tight spot ....i excell

 

I have three friends, one of them I am married to, one of them has been my best friend for over 15 years now, the other one I heardly ever see, but it's always a good time when I do. I have a few aquantinces also, but meh.. who cares