Do you have anyone you share your kinks and interests with

No I wasn't being judgemental in anyway Mojo Toto, sorry About that, I was just explaining how I feel about myself and thought you would find some comfort from that.

 

It can be easy to misread things sometimes - no harm - no foul.

 

Thank you MoioToto for your good words. Have a great evening and even better week.

 

Nope

 

As said earlier, Lifestyle people are easy to share your kinks with. We also for one couple we play with and they(we) have a full disclosure trust with them.
It’s a no judgement conversation. Actually, it’s refreshing to be open with them.

 

First meeting was always fun. A time to discuss likes and dislikes. Then go from there.

 

I find it interesting that you connect it to the 'lifestyle'. I have always tended to relate it to humans being without armour and more open/revealed/less able to conceal.
We've lost the armour that is, our clothes.

Over the years, and my being a 'domestic nudist', I have invited a friend (one at a time but several friends over the years), around for lunch, the afternoon in the garden, dinner or BBQ.
Sometimes all of the above

I would be known by that person to be a DN and so, when she would arrive, she would also strip off as would I once away from the front door and the potential gaze of neighbours.
(not that I hid from the neighbours. I just didn't need them to know my friend and I would be getting nude).
Anyway; these were ordinary friends, whom I enjoyed chatting with on a whole range of subjects and the getting nude bit was just a 'thing' I enjoy and they were willing to do with me.

However, once we were nude, the topics of conversation gradually changed and became more intimate and in-depth.
That's not my point here but what is, though, is that we both were always comfortable answering each other's questions doing so without embarrassment, regardless of how in-depth or intimate the subject or questions were. Were we dressed, we wouldn't have hit on those intimate subjects or, at least, not to the same extent.

Non-judgemental; I get that too. It was the same, with us.
Some more open in the conversations than others were but all were non-judgemental; all were candid on many intimate subjects and some were candid enough to move from describing things to demonstrating.
Again, not something we would have done if dressed.

So I think it's the reality of being nude, mutually, with another human and the real sense of freedom that comes with/from that.
Some of those ladies would never have stripped in public even on holiday.
Two wouldn't even go topless on a beach.

However, when in private with one other human, they were either keen to strip or hesitant at first but then they removed their clothing.

Once naked however, they changed into another person and were noticeably more relaxed and conversationally open on any intimate subject - even the most 'shy'.

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In relation to each of us, our friendship went to another level (of depth). we felt like we had each other's back or at least someone to turn to if we needed help with privacy/discretion. A couple of them described our deeper friendship as more deep than that with their partner/husband. We knew things about each other that nobody else did.
And each of those friendships were more enduring than the relationships we had with our partners/husbands/wives.
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We are nudist as well. Yes…It is the great equalizer.
We get so much joy from being naked especially with others and the subjects are varied. Yes, some sex and experimentation has occurred. But it is always in the spirit of fun and non judgment.

 

Yes, I have all of you!

I love talking about this stuff and you’re my outlet for it. I would talk about it with my wife, but she’s too vanilla when it comes to this stuff.

 

My semi-platonic friend whom I have shared my kinks et al with called me and told me she is taking a holiday in Ireland this summer. She said she was flying over via London then leasing a car to drive to Ireland taking in some points of interest on the way. She has asked if I want to go. I definitely want to take her up on it.
We have been in a long distance ' buddy' relationship with the benefits of sharing some of our sexual history, kinks and fantasies. She knows all about my sph fetish and a great deal of my exploits and fantasies in general. She has shared some of hers with me.
There is not going to be a full on sexual relationship blossoming out of this but perhaps there may be a bit of fiddling about while she is here.
I told her that since she has described her body in intimate detail to enhance my visualizing her sexploits etc perhaps we could do a bit of show and tell. She hasnt said no but gave a definite perhaps. We both get very turned on by our phone chats and e mails ( and we have both masturbated while doing so )
I suggested that we do it in front of each other and she said she was warm to the idea and it would be something new ( like two friends having unattached kinky kicks)
Just seeing her naked and the mega sph bonus of her actually seeing my tiny penis is massively arousing let alone the masturbation bit. ( maybe I will actually fuck her even though she has confessed to me that she may be a bit of a size queen - however she knows I get an sph kick from that and she may just be fibbing)
In between relationships I had a one night stand with a girl I met at a bar. Full sex didnt happen but I talked her into just watching me masturbate. ( she needed a place to crash as she was stranded until public transport was running again) I would have let her stay regardless but she obliged willingly. ( I dont think I have related that little incident to anyone before - including my kink buddy)

 

My kink buddy called me tonight ( tonight by her timezone but very early morning by mine) We talked for ages about this that and the other thing but no kinky stuff - except near the end of the call she cheekily got my dick hard ( she didnt have to guess it would because she is well aware of my sph thing) She wanted me to post a pic of my little weiner to her - didnt because I dont like to put things like that into the ether and I knew she was just trying to get me horny and didnt really want me to do it. However I suggested I could post her a polaroid or two by snail mail and she said she would look forward to seeing them - and meant it ( I think) I have done just that - a pic soft and one hard but not sure I will post them ( wait until I am not so excited about her seeing my tiny cock - wank and then decide if I should do it whether she was serious or not. )
I made that mistake before when extremely aroused while chatting with another female friend ( she knew nothing about my tiny penis let alone my fetish)
She was kind of flirting with me though and I made the super horny mistake of sending her a pic. - I was under the influence of alcohol and amphetamine but that was no excuse. She forgave me eventually but I didnt hear from her for a few weeks . I had sent several desparate e mails to pleas my case and appologize profusely but it took a bit of time for her to respond. I have never told her about my sph thing and not even hinted I get extremely aroused about the poorly judged indiscretion. I totally get off on women seeing my tiny penis but I am not a flasher - that was a one off mistake.

 

ps to my previous post - I am going to send her an e mail saying I know she knows that her just asking me to send her pics would turn me on and I masturbated but I have a couplle of pics and will send them but not unless she gives a definite thumbs up.

 

PS to the ps . I wanked at the thought of following through. Didnt send afforementioned e mail and have put the pics on ice. ( probably the right thing to do if she brings it up again I without my hinting in anyway I will defrost and post.

 

Agreed

 

This is very much my own situation. She claims to have lost interest and only recently told me that she had just been doing it 'to please me' having little to no pleasure herself. Mind you this was after she decided to take a younger boy friend!

 

Sad!:-( So sorry!!

 

That’s me. My wife isn’t into it so I do it myself. My ex wives used to peg the hell out of me but now it’s up to me. At least my wife doesn’t mind of have a problem with it.

 

Currently I have 2 out of state friends I can share my bisexual desires and love of anal play with. They’re a couple I grew up with. We’ve previously discussed a threesome. I’m hoping to reconnect with them one day and play

 

In my limited experience, your statement is true. Much more accepting than "normal" people.

 

A previous partner and I have known each other for about 15 years after meeting online. At this point, I don't remember what site it was. She lives back east and I live in the southwest. We text and email each other fairly often. As partners there were major differences in lifestyle due to travel, alcohol, hobbies, interests, careers, etc. We have always shared our thoughts and ideas relating to just about every subject EXCEPT politics.