Do you flirt with women you aren’t actually trying to sleep with?

lol

 

I have been flirting wit women most of my life. Wanting or not wanting to sleep with them has little to do with it. It is a harmless way of just talking or playing, however you wish to describe it. It makes me smile, it usually makes a woman smile, even if it's just to herself. Everybody wins, assuming you don't make a woman uncomfortable. It should be light, almost in jest. It's a verbally, disarming game.

 

That was a bit more than a flirt, sounded like he was ordering dinner..LOL

 

My ''lol'' above was for that post that was there earlier, with the member posting her phone numbers.

 

I knew that's what your "lol" was aimed at. The post was "unique", or maybe not (shudder)

 

i didn't see it, but from what you guys said, it sadly sounds less unique than you would think.

 

That's what the shudder was for...lol I can only imagine what the women on here actually have to deal with.

 

you don't have to just imagine it; all you have to do is put an attractive woman in your avatar and your inbox will start blowing up with creepy shit.

this message was waiting for me when i signed on today:

 

Holy fucking cow, are those real messages ?? Way beyond most things I would have imagined. Once again, I thank God I'm a guy.....lol

 

yeah, it's actually calmed down lately. i was getting creepy shit all the time for a while there, but lately it's much more sporadic.

in case you didn't realize, i'm a guy too. i just get it because i like having good looking women in my avatar, and i have a username that was funny years ago before this place got invaded by perverts.

 

I know you're a guy, I looked...LOL

 

Are those tears of hysterical laughter I see, or are you crying for the state of human kind ???

 

1 woman

You've had that forever

 

I've always been shy and quiet and I've grown to resent men who flirt and especially the women who encourage it.

 

I flirt with women when I am at my local gym,even some of the guys tell me this

 

My wife is a bit of a tease when in company,she wears hug clinging outfits and likes chatting up the men.
It is harmless fun and it does turn me on when they look at her body.
She really doesn't have to prove herself she looks amazing

 

Yes I'm a terrible flirt.

 

I wind up flirting whether I'm doing it on purpose or not. generally it's just the wordplay and innuendo gets to be fun. but on the whole, I'm actually a pretty harmless flirt. 9/10 times, I actually assume a complete lack of interest from her to start with.

 

Flirt with people you like, you don't necessarily have to immediately want to sleep with someone, the desire often comes through flirt and it's evolution