do you ever flirt with straights?

Anybody ever bend a straight?

 

I give people compliments all the time (ex. I love your hair! Your outfit is so cute! etc.) and a lot of people take it as flirting, even though it's very rare that I'm actually trying to flirt. But sometimes I do purposely flirt with homophobic straight girls, just to see them squirm!

 

I do it all the time, sometimes I don't realise i'm doing it, and other times I just can't help myself, it never hurts to test the waters.

 

I do it, but not seriously expecting a response. If I think I'm over-doing it I make sure to apologise. But hey, fairly recently it sort of paid off.

 

Yup. In Love and War, all is fair.

KD

 

Hell yeah I flirt with staights! I'm in the tail end of a relationship right now with a guy who thinks he's straight. I know better. He'll prolly wind up getting married and being happy for a year or two and then being unhappy for the rest of his life.

Most men lead lives of quiet desperation.

Yeah.

 

I love flirting with straight guys they have no fuckin' clue its so much fun

 

Maybe this doesn't count, but sometimes I flirt with guys to figure out if they're gay or not. Like sometimes I'll yawn and stretch and make a muscle or two.

 

I flirt with everyone. It's kind of my thing.

 

Oh straights are just so afraid of being gay they think its contagus by being around us

 

I'm always attracted to guys who think they are straight. Every relationship i've been in (except one) was with a guy who considered himself straight or at least tried to pass himself off as straight. Everyone I know knows that I'm gay--I don't hide it. But I don't live a "gay lifestyle" in the sense that I don't cruise or look for one-nighters. I meet the people I meet in life and if I'm attracted to them i go for it without regard for their stated sexuality. Sometimes it doesn't work out and sometimes it does. I would prolly be happier if I could shop in my own department but it just doesn't work that way for me. Cuz that's the thing--I don't really shop--I just act on my feelings when I meet someone i like. Maybe f**ked up but, whatever, that's me.

 

I hate to say it, but that idea kind of scares me sometimes. I'm not really too sure about my sexuality, I'm kind of "confused". But regardless of how I feel, I do like hanging out at a particular gay-lesbian-bisexual nightclub. The only thing that really scares me sometimes, is when a guy flirts with me a bit and tell me that I'm not completely straight. Come to think of it, hanging out there, I guess I kind of deserve a comment like that. I just get scared sometimes because I feel like some guys are trying to convince me that I'm actually gay. But all I know for sure is that I do like girls, and I'm not entirely sure if I like guys; hehe, I'm almost worried that their going to convince me that I don't like girls and that I love guys. The reason I started hanging out there, was because I was looking for nice little place that I could feel at home when wearing girls clothes.

 

Just out of curiosity, BuffFilmBuff, what exactly do you look for in their reaction to determine if their homosexual/bisexual or not??? I'm just wondering, because some girls think I'm "gay" and it seems hard to convince them that I'm "straight".

Maybe I should be trying to convince them that I'm bisexual instead, lol...

 

I admire that. I had a friend who was gay, but he was so uptight about it. He tried so hard to give everyone the impression that he was "straight". He told me that with his previous boyfriend, they lived together, they worked together, etc. But at work they would always pretend to be roommates and nothing more, leave the house at different times, bla bla bla, and then at home they'd be themselves. I just didn't really understand it, he was always so stressed out, and so scared that someone would discover that he was gay. Even when we went to a homosexual/bisexual nightclub he couldn't seem to enjoy himself too much, he seemed to be too wrapped up in fear from every other moment of his life.

So I'm really glad to hear that you're open and confident in your sexuality, and that you do ask guys out. I'm glad, because my friend seemed so unhappy, and so scared to ask another guy out, for fear that they might not be "gay".

We aren't friends anymore, but that's irrelevant to this post. We both worked at the same place, but he stopped talking to me after I quit.

 

I have no idea how to flirt. It is likely that I don't catch it when people do flirt with me.

 

If a gay guy flirted with me I would damn sure flirt back. It'd be just as much fun for me as it would be for him to be flirting with a straight guy. I think the thing that would throw them off & make it fun for me would be that they probably wouldn't expect me to flirt back.

 

That's exactly why I don't flirt with straights or because I am afraid of getting beat up.

 

If you like wearing girls clothes than I am pretty sure you are definitely bi at the least.

 

you guys are a bunch of sadists.i'm straight and a gay guy hitting on me gives me the creeps more than a serial killer would.i'm not homophobic,i'm ok with you people,as long as you understand i'm straight and don't try anything.

i was coming back from this concert,walking alone to the bus station at about 4 am.i hear some guy from behind going "psst!hei,brother,why are you walking so fast?".he didn't seem to mean any harm,so i thought he's walking to the bus as well.so i waited till he got next to me.when i started walking again he took my hand and went "brother,can i please suck your cock?".that almost made me shit my pants.then i recovered and told him i like girls,but he just wouldn't understand and kept asking me to let him suck my cock.he even offered to pay me and boasted on his skills.i managed to get away when the bus came.
now when i think about it,my reaction seems hilarious and unexplainable.but the ideea just grossed my mind out.

i don't get you people.i find men to be damn ugly.big bones,big hands,hairy bodies,smelly armpits,how can you take such a body in your arms?no matter how efeminate,a guy is still an ugly neanderthalian.
but hey,it's your pleasures and since that means more free girls,it's just fine by me.lesbos are the true enemy!

 

ugh