Do u also mastubate after marriage?

Thanks man.

Peace Out,
Rev J

 

I am married and yes i totally masturbate. I have to, the husband can be so boring in bed sometimes. I know he jerks off too, secretly. Too bad he won't let me see. That would be such a turn on. But like i said, he can be very boring

Sometimes i get so frustrated cause there is so much kinky stuff i want to try. So i pop in some porn and have fun with my many dildos. But it gets hard finding some alone time with 3 small kids around.

 

Hey, I masturbated before I was married, so why shouldn't I masturbate after I got married? I enjoy sex with my husband, we're very sexually compatible and have a great time in bed (and on a chair and on the floor and on the sofa and in the back yard and wherever we feel like trying next) but sometimes one of us will be out of town on a business trip or one of us might be really horny and aroused and the other might have the flu or sometimes just because it feels good. So... why not? It works just as well now as it did then.

 

If your husband is so conservative, how do you have porn and dildos/vibrators?


I masturbate quite a bit, but I am not open about it with my girlfriend. She doesnt
like it at all. Not sure I would be able to share my interest in porn either.

 

He is not conservative. He's just boring in bed. Hell, he has more porn then me not to mention his own jack off toys. My husband is only the 2nd man i've ever been with but he himself has fucked so many girls in his past that i don't even want to know. I thought having a guy with more experience would be better, boy am i wrong. My ex was a better lay and he was a virgin.

 

The only time in my life that I ever quit masturbating for any significant length of time was when I was shacked up with a girl at the age of 20, and she was ready whenever I was, and sometimes when I wasn't - which is saying a lot. And she was so good in bed...why would I want to do it by myself? But I've been married twice, and neither wife had anywhere near the kind of sex drive that girl had - or was that good in bed. Sometimes you just need to handle things by yourself...

 

See now, if we could only clone the girlfriend you had at twenty we could probably extinguish the practice.

Umm. I think I just offended a whole bunch of ladies with that statement.

 

Sometimes I masturbate while I lick her pussy.

 

If only I could have worked things out with her... unfortunately she came with a bit of baggage - she was 17 years old, with two babies, and married to a guy who was in prison for armed robbery...a bit complicated, you see. And yet, to keep having a sex life like that...I dunno, maybe I should have tried a little harder...I guess I should just feel lucky to have had a bit of heaven for as long as I did.

 

Wow, that's not a bit of baggage, that's alot of baggage.

 

I have been married for 25 yrs and I still masturbate and so does my husband .I think everyone does it married or not

 

Yeah, definitely. Sometimes you've just got to take matters into your own hands - literally.

 

I couldn't imagine not jerking off. I love it!


I love when I get a good bit of time. I usually alternate sessions between my fleshlight(kick ass if you haven't tried one), or just my hand. I just rummage through my porn folders while stroking. I like to take my time too. I like to build it up so that my orgasm is really intense when I cum....lol

Give that up? hell no!

 

I'm a woman and I masturbate maybe two or three times a week. I dont always orgasm when I have sex with my husband and sometimes I'm like damn...I just need to cum. So I do it myself. I know he masturbates too and that's fine.

 

hell yes and my husband does too. I think if I had sex every time I was horny I would not be able to walk.... lol. You know what they say... you know yourself the best. But it doesn't hurt to have someone help : ) haha

 

Absolutely!!!! I wank when ever I can. Have never been caught yet, cum very close though. Funny she always says that it wouldn't bother her if I did wank, but I think she would be horrifide if she knew!!! We all know sex stops once your married anyway

 

YES!! at least 2-3 times per day. Wife love me to too. She likes sex each day, but 2-3 times would be a bit much for her so she loves that I jerk off and lets me cum on her if she's not in the mood to do it for me.

 

In that neighborhood, it was a fairly typical lifestyle.

 

Absolutely. masturbation is the secret to monogamy. It allows you to have affairs in your head, where they don't do any harm to your marriage.

 

I got married late in life. No matter who i was with, how active we were i still enjoyed my quality alone time.

I think it is unfair or unrealistic to expect someone to stop doing it if it is something they enjoy.

I also think that it is VERY common.