Do Older Guys Still Wank As Much?

Yes, I still masturbate once a day, every day usually. While I don't cum as much as I used to if I jerk off everyday, if I go like every other day, I usually cum and orgasm really well.

 

I have been mastubating every day for over 50 years! I love to masturbate my cock!
I am horny everyday so why not masturbate every day? I love to cum!

 

it's not about wanking but more if you can still shoot half a coffee cup???or few drops?
ahah...50 years of wanking you said?

 

Down from 3 times a day to 3 times a week.

 

Not as often as when younger.

 

Well now, There are some underlying issues to this question. First the question does not specify what is meant by 'older'. Many of the replies here are from men who are scarcely 'old'. I cannot help feeling that the men who sent this feel that masturbation should cease or diminish relatively early in adulthood. Certainly, the idea that men past 50 or 60 might have a healthy and vigorus masturbatory life is widely thought not to be the case. These ideas reflect long standing hang ups about sex and especially masturbation. There is an underthread that somehow masturbation is wrong or dirty. As we now live in a more 'open' era, people are able to accept that boys and girls and young men and women wank and that this is perfectly normal and can be admitted and discussed in a forum like this. However, the assumption that this declines once one is in a sexual partnership and diminishes and ceases once one reaches significant adulthood is still implied in the question.There is also the physilogical stereotype that sexual activity and ability declines as one gets older.

Now of course, none of us masturbates as frequently and as energetically as we did as teenagers! Circumstances do not allow it when there are other commitments on time and we cease to be overwhelmed by the rush of hormones the way we were at 16. I remember that in the years leading up to and immediately following my first full masturbatory experience I was prett much overwhelmed by sexual, i.e. masturbatory, need. Erections occured frequently and with minimal prompting. Sex was on my mind frequently throughout the day and I needed to touch myself every day if it was possible. Often I masturbated two or three times a day and, again when circumstances allowed me to, masturbated for long periods. That degree of high sexual need has diminished and I would dearly love to have some of that testosterone power nowadays. But here's the thing, and from what I know this is pretty common, frequency of masturbation diminished into my 30's and 40's but that was probably for practical rather than physical or sexual reasons. There is too much going on in those years and any form of sex, solo and intercourse, has to compete with work, career, family, etc. But in recent years my desire, my need to masturbate has increased and I find myself in a life stage where solo sex has become both far more possible and pressing.

I am in my early 70's, a child of the 60's with its hedonistic priorities. I masturbate usually 4-5 times a week. Sometimes every day for significant periods. I am rarely content with a quick wank to orgasm. My masturbation is spread over a minimum of an hour, actual stimulation of my erection at least 20 minutes. I focus on the total experience not just 'cumming'. Masturbation is varied and I still experiment. Pleasure in my body, especially my penis, is intrinsic to my sense of health and well being and I hope I will continue to do it as frequently and as intently for a long time to come (no pun intended but then actually yes it is a relevant pun!!)

 

Tony Palmer, I agree with you. You explain to exactly the old men how to feel and think at the age of over 60 or 70 years, who gradually scare and fear to lose their life by getting some illness such as diabetes, prostate problem, heart attack or many other popular diagnoses. By these reasons, most of us try to enjoy as much as we can, including sex pleasures such as intercourse and masturbation. It is quite normal in our late period of lives become a little selfish to think about how to please ourselves than our partners. Masturbation is the easiest way to pleasure with or without a partner. That's why we like to masturbate frequently than having sex with our partners. Unfortunately, senior women over 60 lost their sexual desire more than senior men, and they focus on other subjects such as grandchildren or family matters than sexuality.
On the other hand, we think that we could have more sexual pleasure when we were young, and we missed a lot. So, we try to please ourselves as much as we can up to the last moment.

 

As I said on page 9, I have done totally 26000 masturbation sessions for 60 years. when I start it, I was 10 or 11, and now I J/O next to my wife when she does not want sex. I do it while she sleeps.
It takes a little time around one hour to ejaculate. I get hard without any problem and I use a lot of watery lotion. I just rub my cock without stroking. By rubbing the shaft and glance of my cock it gets hard and thick, and the blood current is high and I feel the vines under my palm and fingers. I stretch my legs from tight to the toes, while I rub the shaft and glance firmly. After 45 minutes to 60 minutes, it ejaculates while my legs and toes stretch hard. The amount of the load is not too high but it covers my fingers. Beside J/O lonely beside my asleep wife, I have hot and tense fucking with my wife too. We do it once in a week or 2 weeks.

 

Those are good replies. I'm 54, and as I noted earlier in this thread, nowadays I usually ejaculate 1 or 2 times per week. I masturbate, at least a little, around 5X per week.I'm in a sexless marriage and I've never gone outside it to satisfy my needs, so self-pleasure is what I've got.

The main thing that has changed since I was a teen is frequency of ejaculation. During my teen years, I came every time I jacked off, starting with the big discovery evening in the bathtub not long after my 13th birthday - but it was still around 5X/week. The most I ever came in one day was three times, I think when I was 16, but usually I'd go up to my room, strip down, take care of business in 10-15 minutes in one big blow, and then dress and get on with my life. These days, my sessions are longer, with lengthy edging as I wrote in another thread. My volume of semen now seems to be not quite what it was when I was young, but as far as I can recall, the pleasure I experience during the 20-30 seconds from the start of buildup through to the last spurt has not diminished.

I agree about the practical reasons. When I have an "off day," it is usually because I am too damn busy to think about it or have time for it.

As I also wrote in another thread, I'm experimenting in the past year or so with cum denial. I'll edge myself until I'm berserk with lust and then quit. After several days of that, I'll have that "walking hormone" feeling that makes me feel like a teen again, which I love, and when I do let myself have the big payoff, it is incredible. I can get this would not be everyone's cup of tea, but I like it.

It is fun to discuss experiences and get others' perspectives on this particular part of my life.

 

Yes, we keep changing, and like you, the practices & pleasures of my masturbation sessions & experiences keep expanding, so that each is new & different & delicious -- even ejaculations during the same session can be vastly different!

 

Here's my experience. In the beginning, teenage years, such an event was several times a day. Enter my 20's and women to have sex with, masturbation subsided estimated at 1 to 3 times a week. Crossing over the 30 year mark with a spouse masturbation still wasn't needed as much. My 40's saw a slow down in partner sex. Frequency increased to around 3 to 5 a week level. At 50 years old I was fat, zero exercise, wife sick and becoming celibate, libido dropping, and so was the frequency to maybe 1 to 2 times a week. I hit my mid 50's and decided I had to change. Exercise increased and the fat came off. Masturbation frequency rose to levels of 7 to 10 times a week. As I hit 60 I maintained a level of 7 to 10 times a week masturbating but medical issues began even with all of the exercise. B/P jumped off the scale, got serious pains in my testicles, other issues began to arise and the medicines affected my erections and libido. I went to almost nothing as I couldn't maintain an erection.

Enter a foray into alternative medicine. Chiropractic did help a lot and suggested massage. Finding massage helped my aches and pain from physical activity I was scheduling licensed massage therapists bimonthly. But cost became an issue so I sought a cheaper solution. Stepping into an Asian massage parlor I discover what it was like to have a woman touch me erotically again and my sex world exploded plus the massage was just as good. My doctor also changed medicines and added erection help to the mix. Diet, exercise, correct prescriptions and alternative medicine combined, plus a new found libido with the freedom to pursue sex outside marriage has returned me to a comfortable 7 to 10 times a week.

What I have noticed through all this is several changes. The intensity and length of my orgasms has increased beyond just ejaculation. Many times my whole body shakes as I orgasm sometimes for a minute or two. The amount of semen is quite less and I don't shoot streams anymore. I do take longer with masturbation to orgasm but with a woman's touch I reach my peak nearer a normal time as within 10 to 15 minutes during intercourse. Sex seems to be much better now that I am a senior and I do appreciate being able to continue. How long? I don't know but if I take care of myself I may enjoy sex for a very long time. As my cousin noted the other day my gray hair is more prominent. My response was that there is still a roaring fire inside and it's burning nicely.

 

Imho yes. Sometimes even more. It depends on the individual.

 

Best feeling there is!

 

I believe the power of sexual imagination is a source to
increase our lust. There are a direct chemical and biological connection between the brain and the sexual system. A vision system is a connector between the brain and the sexual system, that's way as soon as we see a sexy woman our hearts and cocks start pulsing. By creating a sexual imagination or a sexual fantasy we don't need to watch pron or to touch a real woman. In this situation, our body's biological activities cause to arouse nerve system and pump blood into the cock veins, as well as the semen injection into the penises.
Since I was a kid I have had a powerful imagination about anything. Later when I was a teen my imaginations were switched from regular things to sexual matters. Since those times I have engaged with sexual fantasies as a daily base.
Actually, I can't stop thinking about sex, it is an essential fact in my daily life. Honestly, I enjoy more by fantasizing women than the real women. I think I am addicted to fantasy, but it is a good and harmless one to give me high sexual desire.

 

I have always, and I mean always had a high sex drive. I was gifted with a seven and three quarter inch circumcised bat. Im 63 and often masturbate 3 or 4 times a day. My wife is an ex nurse and when i came home from the doctor with basically a verbal prescription form to wank at least 21 times a month for prostate heath, needless to say i was delighted. And my wife was very understanding. Now i wank whenever i want - no hiding it anymore. What a relief. I average two masturbations a day and feel more sexually free then ever before in my life. My wife and i havent fucked for 20 years even tho many of my fantasies involve her. She’s not into fucking or mutual masturbation (even tho I’d love to jack off with her). But i guess at my age this is as good as it gets. So i wank and then i wank again. All this ejaculating only manufactures more sperm, so its a bit of a vicious circle. The moe i masturbate the more siemen i develop and the more i need to jerk off - poor me

 

That's quite normal, no matter what age you are. If it doesn't effect on your daily and mariage life, nothing is wrong, keep it going.

 

The best thing i did when i retired was lose 25 pounds. And masturbate more.
I eat healthier, walk 5 miles a day on average and masturbate at least twice a day. I almost hate to say it, but i actually prefer masturbation over sex with a woman. Masturbation allows me to have sex (in my mind) with anyone i want. Who i fuck in my mind, stays in my mind. With jerking off two and sometimes four times a day, i am glad I’m an oozer and not a squirter because i would have a bigger cleanup wiping down the walls, lol

 

As a Canadian, i can smoke a bit of weed legally and then reach for the lube. Nice. I had smoked pot earlier in life and then stopped for 30 years cause i had a responsible job.
Fast forward to 2018 and Canada makes weed legal nationally. I retire, get a bag of weed and wow do i jack off now. Sexless marriage but wife is okay with me taking care of business by myself. I average twice a day sometimes three or four. I’ve jacked myself into losing 25 pounds and I live a healthier lifestyle now. Since my penis is 7 3/4 inches i have a whale of a good time with myself. I can fuck anyone (in my mind) that i want. Who i fuck in my mind, stays in my mind - no guilt. Love it.

 

I am 65 I jacked off twice yesterday I used mineral oil to live up both times I shot a big load onto the garage floor ...3 hours apart...I am still horny

 

I'm 52 and anyone who follows these masturbation threads that was that I jack off quite a bit.

 

My wife and I make love everyday but when we are apart for various reasons, I wank at least once or twice a day. I am 66 years young.