Do men repress rape instincts?

I've never had the slightest desire to rape anyone. To me, if sex is forced on someone, it loses all it's meaning. Sex should be something mutual, where both partners are pleasing each other, and getting pleasure from giving it to the other.

I've been one horny guy for most of the time since I turned about 12, and I can honestly say I've never had any rape instincts to suppress. I don't understand guys that do, either. Or for that matter, girls that fantasize about rape. The whole idea seems kind of repulsive to me.

 

i know that most people are decent. But everyone is human. and i was just wanting to know. in a human sense... from a human perspective...that sexual desire...How do you control it.. how difficult is it to put it out of your mind sometimes?

And why do fathers always insist that young men are just ferrets...and that their daughters should stay away from them?. it seems that they're saying men think with their dicks and not much else.

is this true?

 

There is no such thing as "rape instincts"

 

Men have urges. I'm not sure about rape instinct and I think that word was chosen wrongly - which is why it has sparked very heated responses in some here (not surprising). Keramptha, I think you realize how insulting that word is?

Men have urges but most aren't going to force you to bend over, pull down your pants and stick up to you because they're "young ferrets" unless there's something really disturbed about them AND/OR you the female, have done something to provoke them.

I'm also wondering if this thread is actually about DESIRE, why is it about male repression?!

Yes, it is hard to suppress sometimes! And yes, it is human nature. But having the desire and acting out on it are two different things. That's where control comes in.

 

I think your totally right! I walk down the street and on any given day 9 out of 10 guys I see I imagine sleeping with them, oral sex (giving and recieving), ect. Does that make me a rapist? And what about the aggressive sex I sometimes like with my boyfriend, does that make me a rape victem? Rape is something totally different than thinking about sex with strangers.

 

it's about repressed sexuality... but come on girls.... please don't tell me you haven't ever just got sick and tired, of your male friend trying it on with you... when you didnt want them to, when you thought you were just freinds... and then you feel let down becuase men cant seem to not try it on with you,just becuase you are female and their friend...
come on.. it is annoying...

i guess its about men becuase they have the ability to force themselves on women in a pentrative way.

i supopse another way# of phrasing it could be... rape primal urges... do they exist?, how do men control them... do they if they exist, effect the moral behaviour of men! when they are trying to sleep with a woman.. do they stop being considerate, and think with their dick.. use force, persuasion, threatening behaviour... maniupulation... becuase of the urges...???

in my experience yes. men can ahve a strong level of desire that is purely about sex... of course women can too... but men can also lack an incredible amount of sensitivity compared to women.