Do guys feel when a girl orgasms?

I love it when a woman cums for/with me, whether during oral or intercourse. My current wife won't allow herself to orgasm during oral. She'll get right there, and then push me away. Again close but pushes me away, and then pulls me into her. She is multi orgasmic and although I love her moans, groans, talking and squeezing pussy, it's difficult for me not to cum during her first, second or third orgasm. With a lot of practice I'm able to hold off u til she's ready for me to cum..Then we share a mutual orgasm.

 

I’ve noticed gf tends to clench up when she reaches height of climax

 

My wife is a career equestrian trainer and has very strong hip abductors / pelvic muscles from 'legging' horses for 40+ years. When she orgasms her contractions grip me like a strong hand, by far the most PC strength I've ever experienced and if she beats me to orgasm, those contractions will absolutely drain my balls instantly- every time.

 

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Funny how one particular fwb felt looser instead of tighter when orgasming.
I felt her become less snug and very noticeably wetter inside. It helped that she would be on top and I just paid attention to how she felt.
The nice part was that I was less stimulated and got to last longer inside her.

One woman didn’t get tighter or looser but the orgasmic contractions were almost like a vibration that set off my own orgasm.

I also experienced vaginal orgasms that clenched me if I was deep enough to stay in, or push me out if I was not deep enough.

For some the only ways I knew they orgasmed were the way they moved, telling me not to stop, the moans, groans or screams, or just telling.

 

Have I answered this already ? Well I would not know if my ex had squirted simply because we were drenched in sweat.

I thought wtf is going on with this sweat ? We have not run a marathon so why are we so wet ? totally weird. I made a point of skimming her back with my hands and I was splashed with water from her back. WTF !!! Female orgasm is incredible as it is weird. lots of strange and amazing things happen.

 

Oh definately

 

Well, no you can't feel a woman orgasm but a woman can feel you. Not only from the seman but from the way the penis increases in size. Your dick isn't sensitive enough to feel much more than wetness and tightness. If you were giving her oral, yes if you paid attention you could tell. Not from my V'Jay but from my actions. All to say, don't get caught up in her orgasm. Sometimes it happens, sometimes not. She's not like you. If you want to be a great lover, the best thing to do is listen and pay attention to her body. Really it's difficult. But notice her breathing, her hips, etc. The little changes. They will tell you everything. Most guys are too busy pushing in and out to notice or many don't care. It's simple, pay attention to what she does . And we're all different. Some move, some pump back, some scream, some will tell you, some will laugh (me). But if you pay attention there's something she does to let you know. And stop the variety. If you find something that works-for god's sake keep doing it. Nothing worse than getting close and suddenly he changes. Women squirting happens but don't get caught up in the porn stuff. Most women can squirt but it's more like a little wet spot, not shooting across the room. It rarely happens for most women and if it does, even fewer from regular sex. Also, it has NOTHING to do with orgasm. I orgasm then squirt (again a little wet spot) then orgasm. Squirting is not related to my orgasm. Personally, I'd rather I never squirt. It feels like I'm peeing, not pleasant. So don't even worry about it. Pretty much has nothing to do with great sex.

 

Oh, what does it feel like? I can only speak for myself obviously. Not something easy to explain but I'll try. It starts in my hips and feels like a warm stream of thick liquid is flowing from my hips to my vagina. Once it gets to my vagina the two streams flow together in a circular motion. I love that part. Then they move up flowing back and forth across my stomach until they reach my midsection. There they explode into millions of tiny sparks of warmth that burst out of my body. Then my mind goes blank and, if it's really great, I burst into uncontrolled laughter. Nothing is funny but it's just a release of emotions. Some of the tiny sparks "get caught" in areas of my body making me twitch. Like if they are caught in my shoulder, it'll twitch to make them get out. Then, I'm just relaxed. This can happen many times or just once or not happen. Just depends on a lot of things. Trying to explain the unexplainable is hard. "Experience may vary by user" PS. this is not meant as porn.

 

No, not really.

 

Both my wife and fwb tense and their legs quiver. Sometimes they will squirt. My fbs pussy tightens and sometimes will actually push my cock out like a rocket. She says that of the dozens of men she has been with only a few including myself have been able to stay inside as she cums. I cant do it all the time and its kind of a contest to see if I can

 

Here is a fun way to try staying inside:
When she is about to orgasm she tells you, you go all deep just before she orgasms

 

Yeah, you could feel when girls orgasm, it's hard to miss.

 

I love feeling her as her pussy contracts

 

Agreeing with everything else you wrote, that is actually wrong.

And it's the variation in tightness we can feel (with some women), as they have orgasmic contractions.
We can feel that variation in our cock and we can also feel the tensing up of her body, if she does that, through her thighs tightening or her hands or arms grabbing us and pulling us close.
There's a lot of things we can feel when our friend orgasms and those are different from woman to woman.

I would recommend guys stop focusing on her orgasm or her squirting or any other specific things she may or may not do.
Focus your mind, fingers, tongue, body and all of your soul on giving her pleasure. Follow her lead and the signs she may display so you can improve what you do for her.

Top Tip time: If any guy thinks he knows what to do with one woman so he must know what to do with them all, it means he doesn't actually know what to do with any of them.
If he knew all there was to know, he would know there's always more to learn.
Also; remember, for many women, it's not about the quickest orgasm, or even having an orgasm. It's about the intimacy and the build up, wherever that may lead.

 

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Men have a male orgasm which is much more powerful than just ejaculating its just that most men are just too lazy or ignorant to want to experience it. A real orgasm is very hard to achieve most guys wont spend hours on foreplay because thats how long it takes to get to female orgasm and male orgasm.

 

Ahh yes this is right. The biggest evidence of real orgasm is when the vagina locks the penis into the vagina and its very difficult to withdraw. penis captivus the allusive real orgasm which very few are willing to share this experience. Youre right on the money keep giving her pleasure. if you can go hours then you will eventually get there. I know its difficult but its like Indiana Jones and search for the Holy Grail its a long arduous journey to the Holy Grail of real orgasm. By the time you get their you balls are going to be aching still once she feels that orgasm coming gently enter her and hold on she's a wild ride. Oh and when her vagina starts to tighten around you cock you know you chose wisely. Don't freak outs its just her orgasm !

 

just wait till it grabs hold and it wont let go ha ha this is true real orgasm is a freaky experience.

 

usually yes, though I'm aware all signs can be easily faked (hope she doesn't )
during oral I love feeling her pussy spasms or her asshole contraction; durinx sex, if I'm not cumming with her I can feel her pussy clenching around my cock, or looking at the classic toes curling

 

She's promised to never fake one. When she cums from my penis - rarely - I feel her squeeze my penis. She's more apt to cum from oral or fingering.