Do girls want sex?

i agree with the above ^ post. Women don't want or need sex as much as guys do. Besides the physical pleasure on the penis (which is greater pleasure than a woman receives) there is also the psychological validation of acceptance when a guy scores. He no longer feels like a loser since has a "conquered" someone. Women don't need this type of validation to nearly the same extent.

 

HAH women dont require validation? have you met women?
of course we need validation. n ot of conquering someone, but that we are desireable, sexy, worthwhile, respected, loved, cared for, connected to, etc etc etc. we require a great deal of emotional validation (for the most part, there are of course exceptions)

 

what I meant was women don't need sex for validation, they need attention for validation. Men need sex, attention is still a "loss" without getting laid. If a guy talks to a girl for 3 hours and does not get any, he feels bad, a girl doesn't feel that way if no sex happens.

 

"i lvoe sex, but i wouldnt fuck any random dude from teh bar, even when i was single. most women, even if they love sex, require an emotional connection "

if Brad Pitt or a reasonable look-alike was at the bar, you'd hit this random guy. Looks and physical attraction are 90% of why people get together, the rest is formality and things like personality, sense of humor, even money are very distant in priority. Nothing can compare to being hot.

 

Do girls want sex? Obviously not!

 

praxis, are you being serious or mocking ?

 

I do think there's a biological difference. I grew up in a feminist household, and my single-mom drilled into my head that all behavioral differences between men and women were socially created.

Since her activist years she's changed her perspective. And so have I.

I tend to agree with you. Women don't prioritize sex. But to tell you the truth, neither do I, anymore.

I'm not even concerned with sex, more with the rejector-initiatior role. I think there must be a biological explanation for why women reject a priori.

 

I like sex

 

Are you the initiator in most situations?

 

I don't think people appreciate the biological basis for our behavior and that culture attempts to guide or sometimes suppress our biological instincts. Since emotions of women are the same throughout history, these emotions are not unique to the individual and they really are not in control of them, its a primal biology that is guiding them without them truly appreciating it.

 

There is definetely a biological basis for women's knee-jerk rejection. I've been rejected by several women who actually love me and were climbing the walls to have sex with me again. It happened just a couple of weeks ago, actually.

 

well, the only action I've ever had is with escorts and I do envy guys who get it so easily. That is one mystery I'll never solve.

 

"The physical pleasure on the penis ... is greater pleasure than a woman receives"

??? How would anyone know that ???

"Well, when I had a penis, it was more pleasurable than now that I'm a woman."

Myth, pure myth!

 

I've been with both. And would you believe it, I wouldn't rate escorts any lower. There is advantages and disadvantages to both escort and mutually satisfying sex.

The point is, even though I get flirted with on a daily basis, the complete picture of my interaction with women still leaves me feeling undesired, and rejected.

I've gone from being nauseated by that fact, to accepting it as just a fact of nature.

 

not a myth. Our zones are on the outside and have more nerve endings.

 

Either way, it doesn't matter.

 

I've only ever messed around with my current boyfriend and yes I usually initate.

 

being with escorts is like a medical treatment, no emotions, total strangers.. although if you see one frequently a sort of friendship develops which is nice but as soon as she looks at the watch, your hour is up and you have to go. Back to business.

you get flirted on a daily basis? wow, are you a great looking guy? that's kind of rare, even with some of my friends who are quite handsome dudes. ARe you in a business surrounded by women or something?

believe this, you don't know what the meaning of "rejected" means. I've never had a gf or been flirted with. No offense but you don't know how good you have it.

 

I do think it matters, men's pleasure >>> women's pleasure. Plus men have the psychological victory of being validated and feeling like a success.

 

I've actually had an interesting experience with a brazilian escort. She actually became infatuated with me. We talked for 6 months, and the last time I had to "insist" to pay for the 4 hours or so. It was special. We spent most of the time talking, like old buddies. The kind of thing that only happens in Brazil.

The other couple of escorts (I've been with 4) were all business, like you said. And I'm done with those. It just makes me feel horrible.

Why do you think you don't get flirted with or never had a gf?

I think I need women to really show appreciation to feel validated. Sex is not enough. Sometimes initiation is not enough. Depends on the kind of initiation. A lot of women consider standing close to you at a bar initiation (hint: madlizard). And they've done it like 5 times in their lives. So help us God.

Flirty glances are definitely not enough to make me feel desired.

And then, of course, women who initiate are usually not the most attractive. A simple case of supply and demand.