Do and Don’ts of sharing your wife

That's interesting. Did he say why?

 

He just said knowing that they had fucked me was a huge turn on for him.

 

I can understand that. It's a real thrill to kmow that your wife or girlfriend has given these guys the ultimate in pleasure. Especially if you know them. did he want you just after them? We always try to do that. My gf always asks if I can feel them inside her.

 

Even if your relationship is strong if you open that can of worms [penis's] she might start running around behind your back.
Maybe that's okay, such as an open relationship but if you are unsure and feel it would be an emotional situation for you to share don't even broach the subject.

 

Do and Don’ts...

Don't force it. If one person is not interested, and it is your fantasy, then it may not work out for you both.

Our first was with one of my ex-boyfriends that I reconnected with on Facebook. We knew each other, had history and i did trust him.

Ok, advice for you guys. If you ask your wife which one of your friends she would do this with, she will tell you that she has never thought about it. She has! If you have been out drinking, and after during sex, ask her then which one of your friends that she is attracted to. She will tell you then. I think we have all thought about one of our husband's friends at some point.

Communicate, communicate, communicate...

 

I know what you mean. When my wife started seeing other guys and returned home we couldn’t get to bed fast enough. A couple of decades on and when she returns home I make us a cup of tea! Lol

 

I always thought it would be hot for my wife to sleep with another guy and after some convincing she agreed. We agreed on the neighbor guy and the deal was that I was supposed to know when it happened then I’d come home and we would do our thing afterwards. The first time that’s the way it worked and it was fun. The next dozen or so times I was completely clueless and left out. She decided she might be in love with him. So yeah that backfired so be careful with that.

 

As the saying about gambling goes, only risk what you are prepared to lose.

There is always a risk. You just need to be smart enough to know about it and decide if you want to take it. The flip side is the risk reward can be spectacular.

 

Dos and don'ts... Do enjoy it and don't get uptight.

 

Never with a friend. Risk of entangle.ents too great.

 

Never share with a friend. The risk of various entanglements is too great. With a clean stranger is safer and hotter.

 

But how to find out which friends to ask or how to find out if they are into that as well most of our friends are married

 

My wife has rarely went with strangers as the biggest concern was safety. Charming can quickly flip to psycho. She mainly stuck to male friends at work. Yes, there’s a lot who are married but they usually just want the sex and certainly don’t want to get emotionally attached. That works both ways and helps avoid relationship traumas.

 

Ok but my wife works from home and when she did work in the office it was all girls lol is there any way to find out if our couple friends are into stuff like that without marking it awkward or weird

 

There's risks either way. The hot stranger may not be who you perceive, but the friend can have the goods on you potentially being life disrupting, especially "work friends". The reality is that co workers are not your friends.

 

True I was more into close friends of ours

 

for me, it was obvious from the beginning most of my guy friends and my bf's friends were attracted to me from the begining, it was just a matter of me flirting and goin out with them and having a fun night that got them to join. if ur friends are married then thats a bit harder i think, since most of them probably arent polyamorous, you'll just have to find single friends.

 

Thanks for the input we don’t get out much and we are not super big on social media so maybe one day who knows

 

It might be surprising how many married men would take up the offer of a ‘no strings attached’ fuck as long as there is total discretion.

A married woman who worked for me ran a small bed and breakfast business from her home. Mostly travelling sales reps on a budget. One of the other staff told me she often slept with the guests if she liked them and had regulars she would spend the night with when they stayed. Meanwhile, the husband slept alone in the marital bed.

 

maybe get her to go on a dating app? long as u stay safe

she sounds like me haha. the husband either loved it or didnt know about it, hope it wasnt cheating but he gave her permission, even i wouldnt do something like that without telling my bf lol. but yea the no strings things i guess any guy would take.