Did he not notice me because he was high?

Stop conforming to gender norms and approach him. Take some power over the situation.

 

what he says.some guys,myself included would prefer the female to initiate contact.

gettin all dolled up can be a good and bad thing.too dressed up and guys will think youre a slut.to me it says your top priority is money.not the type of women im looking for.

i know im gonna use the wrong wordage here.but i like women that look cute in sweat pants,sweat shirt,sneakers and no make up but can look amazingly beautiful when they get all dressed up.you wouldnt walk around 24/7 all dressed up in heels would you?when a guy sees you dressed like that he may expect you to dress like that 24/7 cuz thats the only way he thinks youre beautiful.

 

With Corset shirt, jeans and 4" heels?

By the sounds of it you are talking about some cool good looking mellow stoner dude.

Doesnt seem to match.

Its not so much about dressing slutty or like a hooker, thats just what people say when they want to be bitchy. But I think the others are right, you can look great but too high maintenance, that will just scream gold digger to them.

Simplify it down, sounds like a guy more into gals that wear summer dresses, doc martens and light make up


But then again, you didnt talk to him, in your nervousness didnt smile at him, all joozed up .....he was probably thinking wow she's a stuck up cow

But then again again, you cant really trust what the guys say, "If I was him I'd been all over you" thats just really ego. If he was really stoned, reality is would have been thinking more about chocolate biscuits....or if it was another drug as well, speed or X would have been thinking, wow look at those pretty neon lights above the bar...they look so cool

 

Don't I wish more girls knew that.

 

well the idea is that they put energy into their looks to get the attention and the guy approaches

 

He already approached her before. He has to keep approaching, create & keep a good conversation going (all while the chic just sits back and judges and grades),
keep things cool & gravy and all she has to do is put on some make up and stand there like a blind retard?

Ya F that idea.

 

He's probably gay.. Who the fuck wouldn't talk to a girl dressed up in a corset and "fuck me heels".. especially after he has approached her plenty of times before

 

He might have been too high.some dudes prefer a simple look or natural. I think you should just go talk to him some dudes are shy or you might intimidate him. just be yourself. dudes seem to like me the most when im not dressed up but I dont ever dress to impress.

 

Its true., real gay guys dont hit on me when Im all dressed up..