Did girlfriend have a gangbang?

dude, if you were split up, it is her business to tell you what she wants, and nothing else. i know, being that you had a relationship for a long time before that, it feels like she should tell you everything, but the lying might be coming from the fact that you two weren't together, and she just doesn't want to tell you everything, but is feeling guilty because you think she should. i just don't think it's any of your business what really happened, unless she wants to tell you. just my opinion though, take it or leave it.

 

I agree with nakedtreehugger,what happened when you broke up is her business.
What happens when you're together is your business(yours & hers).
Otherwise I don't think you should worry about it.
Move on to better things.

Give the relationship a chance instead of holding this against her.
You two were'nt going out at the time so you have really no right to keep bugging her about it.
She probably lied to not make you feel bad.

If you keep bothering her about it it will sabotage the relationship.
Be happy you're together again.

 

Without a commitment , she is entitled to do anything she likes and it appears she likes sex. Deal with it and either accept the fact that she likes to screw around or split. She doesn't seem to be missing you too much.
When you had sex with her the first time, was her pussy dripping with cum or do you think she just let them all finish in her mouth. Can you accept her promiscuity? Maybe you would like to be cockhold bf?

 

^ I don't think that's very fair at all topper.

I would be quite bothered if I was in this guy's shoes. I would be annoyed by the idea of her with all those guys, but her lying about it would absolutely kill me.
I believe very strongly in honesty and openness within a relationship (the sort that would rather be told 'hey, I just cheated on you', than find out any other way). Now, if she reserved her right to be silent, I would probably try to deal with it (until it ate away at me and made me convince her to tell me =P) but I would try.

I think that she straight out lied about it at first, is quite alarming, and something that should be addressed (not held against her, but talked about).


But, I am drifting here:
What I really meant to say was, obviously he is being accepting of her actions, even though they don't suit his ideals. There's no reason to jump down the guy's throat; he is trying to be understanding of her. The true hero is the one that struggles to make the right choice.

 

i say just leave it.. you were broke up and it is her business.. if you keep pushing the subject it will cause problems in the relationship... just be glad that your back together...

 

even if you subscribe to the "you weren't with her so it's not your business theory", she still lied to you now that you're back together.

I'd ditch her. Liars never change.

 

You should tell her that you have your suspicions and it's bothering you. You would understand her actions, if you understood how she really is and wants.
Hey, there are some women who want a lot more than their guy can give them and they can't help themselves. Just as a guys checks out every skirt that passes, she can't pass it up.
I can only speak from my own experiences. I went out with a fine lady who was probably the best sex in my life. She was the horniest woman I knew and if she had the inkling, she went for it, M&F.
There was no fighting it, she was who she was. I decided to go in the same direction and began to have sex with every woman that I had the opportunity too. With both of us being bartenders, it wasn't such a hard feat.
We stayed together/openly for a couple of years. Mind you, this was before Aids and things were totally different then.
One of the coolest things was that we both knew where things were at . We even talked about our experiences. That is something that I have never been able to do with any other woman in my life. Neither of us wanted a commitment and we both wanted it all. If we weren't lustfully enjoying each other, we were enjoying the fruits of life with others.

 

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Thanks people it is always good to hear others views and I'm not going to beat myself up over this.
Actually recently we have been getting on real well and having sex loads, it is almost like she is a different person sexually. I don't know if what happened had anything to do with it but she is constantly horny and has been playing with herself quite alot and a few times has asked for me to get her dildo and fuck her with it real hard and she is having some amazing orgasms and so am I!

For the first time ever I put the dildo in her ass whilst I was shagging her and she was really loving it and I was getting off thinking about her fucking other men imagining that she took them in both holes at once!

It is a strange feeling and one that I haven't had before until recently.

 

I'd say she had a gang bang with the 3 guys, but that's pretty hardcore, and I'd have to know the girl personally to be able to tell if she was capable of it. Either way, you won't feel better till you have a gangbang with 3 girls (or throw some guys in there, whatever you can get/works for you).

 

Good that you seem to be working everything out. It must be so exciting/scary to be in such a new place.

best of luck to you in however this develops =)

 

Have you ever thought about an open relationship. My friends have been married 10 years the end of the month, and they've always been in an open relationship. Obviously they have the boundaries talk so they know what is going too far. Loads of people I know are in open relationships, and it works great for them. Good luck on the road to sexual freedom!

 

Girl is whacked.

 

No, but I hope that when I finally find the right woman to spend life with, that she is open-minded about group sex, even a gang-bang if she'd like it.

 

This was bugging me so I asked her if that night she had been made to do anything against her will because of the bruises between her legs and all the cum and she said no and that she HAD fucked all 3 guys. . . so at least now I know !
Of course I wanted every last detail and I got it right down to the fact that they all fucked her when they first got back from the pub and then again a few hours later. She said she was so horny when she saw me because they had only left about an hour before I got there and she had been playing with herself since then as her pussy was so sore it was making her horny which seems odd but she has always liked that sore feeling she gets when I (or a 19 year old!!!!) use her dildo on her !

She said she enjoyed it and I was glad that it wasn't against her will.

 

So the question is dude, does it turn you on? Or piss you off?

 

Um well I got a boner when she was telling me about it although sometimes I feel like I shouldn't get turned on by it. If we hadn't have been split up at the time then I think i would feel differently, like she had cheated and that wouldn't turn me on.
She said that she came quite a lot (well I did ask!) which made me feel a bit bad as I never made her cum with my dick except when she has had a dildo inside her aswell. When I think about her cumming I suppose it does turn me on and most of what she told me she did was getting me horny although I didn't tell her!

 

Some girl were meant for screwing and some for marrying. this one speaks for itself. My advice, enjoy your turn on her body and have her fulfill all of your fantasies. Just don't take her home to moma!!

 

I think some the jealousy we feel in a relationship comes from possesiveness. Feeling that someone belongs to you. Or is yours alone. Personally I have come to feel that being posessive is really a negative emotion. It's natural. But if you can get past it you can reach new heights together. Get a real appreciation for each other. I don't think most of us are ready for it. Of course if this type of sex becomes an addiction that is another story. All addictions lead to being "possessed" by a substance or an act.

 

I think if I was with a chick for 10 years, during a break up of a few weeks she had a gang bang and then we got back together after I would not feel good about. The concept that a break up of a few weeks following a 10 year relationship=her sex life is none of your business seems very irrational to me. Even more so when there is a good chance that you will work things out and get back together. I mean, what if she just brought AIDS into your relationship, is it your business now?

I would suspend that shit in break up mode for now and think that shit through before proceeding with the relationship. Give serious consideration to your future and where you want to be down the road.