Dang, there are some HORNY MFers in here

Make out. Yes. Phone numbers. Yes. But sex? Three months.

Anyway, this is all ridiculously irrelevant and I'm ashamed of parading my personal life as much as I have.

 

jesus, I don't know. I think it depends on what you're looking for. I only really know Manhattan and Brooklyn. give me the lower east side, which the Bowery obviously touches upon. Tompkins has a colorful assortment, haha.

 

I get a little sick of "interesting" people sometimes.

Just gimme regulah folks sometimes.

Too many walking conversation pieces out there in the world.

 

three months?!?!? :bigcry:





if it helps, i had sex about 3 years ago, which was also the last time i made out... i did get one phone number about a year ago, from the most beautiful girl i have ever seen, but then i lost my phone about an hour later...

 

I am the most sexual being I know, but I hardly ever have it because, well, im picky I guess. Sadness.

 

See that interests me...

Sounds psychogenic to me. Maybe I'm wrong.

 

I'll tell you the same thing I told Jess, ya need ta bring that chocha outta hibernation. It's spring for gods sake!

 

lmao. I know right. I do have like 3 potential dates. We shall see.

and by potential I mean one is potential and the rest are pending

 

Nice to have options right?

 

exactly. but I want someone special who I can dote on and love up tremendously.

 

seems that way to me too... i've long held the theory that i subconsciously sabotage my own happiness, and it wouldn't surprise me in the least to find out that this was an example...

 

Me too.

 

cate, that sig

 

I do that shit too man.

In the end, we're not that different.

But, uh, you have to try to explore what secondary psychological gains you get from being unsuccessful with women.

 

i have more time to spend on hipforums???


yeah, i fail to see the benefit...

 

Well. Failing protects us from performance anxiety. It's also a way of getting the attention our fathers were unable to give us in childhood. lol

 

umm, i have a feeling you're referring to your own childhood here... otherwise you've completely lost me...

 

I am.

I'm also being my usual facetious self.

But you can look for something analogous in your experience.

Believe me, I suck with girls too. My father is to blame.

 

i can only blame myself...




well also my parents, every girl i was ever attracted to, and nature.



but i'm sure it's mostly my fault

 

YA GOTTA STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP, my man.

That is ALL.

Go out there and make mistakes!

I try my best to follow my own advice, right up there with you.