i have no scale of reference to know how good i am but i can at least say that i dont always initiate it it may be that i only enjoy it because it's all i have but it's still FUN you know whats inconvenient, my girlfriends mom read her computer screen and now she makes a point of staying up late so we cant, she doesnt say it's what she's doing but she totally is, the situation totally fucked, or rather it isnt, thus the problem