This is the nice thing about being with one person for so long - after a while you start to know the others body language, and you KNOW when it's about to happen. Julia has never minded, and enjoys me cumming in her mouth - so i guess I'm spoiled........! During the few times we've had another guy - she says absolutely no. Common sense I guess.
I usually don't need a notice, I can tell. But I've been surprised a couple of times and that was kinda exciting actually, a nice surprise. I always swallow.
You can move away, and let him know next time you prefer he did not cum in your mouth. He can come without, shootin' in your mouth.
it doesn't feel the same, when your shooting is when it feels the best and that is also when a tongue on the bottom of your shaft right under the head feels so so so nice, sliding up and down.... mmmmm
its fine but he should warn you... i always swallow but its nice to know you are about to have to swallow so you dont choke lol. i deep throat so if its without warning could make me spit it all out and well thats just not fun or sexy. but if he did it. then guess i did my job anyway right lol
I would carry on sucking and gentle pull his ball down a bit and squeeze gently to make it even more intents, you can tell when a man is about to climax.
I guess that when I guy is cumming, you can surely "notice" the effects just before his orgasm.. can you girls confirm this?
I remember the first time I sucked a guy...I was very young (mid-teens) and he in the mid-30s. In his defense I want to state that I offered myself to him - I really liked him and wanted him to have me - so it was rather myself taking advantage of him than the other way around. I started to suck him off (just as I've seen in movies) but I told him I don't want him to cum in my mouth - that's something for porn stars and prostitutes - I thought back then. He agreed. And while doing it I started enjoying myself, and the control I've had over a guy twice my age. At some point he mumbled something about cumming, but I didn't get it in due time, and before I knew it, I had a mouthful of cum. To my surprise, I liked the taste, so I continued to suck him off, and I did so until his penis got soft in my mouth. Then I made a show to swallow his cum, watching him all the time. In the end, he bent down and gave me a wet French kiss, tasting his own semen off my lips. Ever since, I swallowed each and every other guy (and chick) I went down on.
My wife prefers a warning as sometimes I cum without her being able to notice I am ready. An example is an "accident" we had a few weeks ago. She was really getting into the action when she pulled it out of her mouth for a few secons to catch her breath. I started to cum as she was doing this and ended up shooting cum up her nose and into her eyes. My wife does not like facials anyway, and this certainly put an end to our fun that night.
I always have plenty of subjective warning before I'm about to orgasm. Actually getting me to orgasm is damned hard work so it's not going to be a "surprise" by any means, I'll know a mile away, and she'll know too, there's lots of physiological and behavioral signs of approaching orgasm in men. For example, the testicles recede into the body, the perineum (area between balls and ass) swells, etc.