Thats what I did and it resulted in one of our hottest experiences. After her orgasm, she asked me to finish up and cum on her. I started stroking my cock against her ass and was massaging her asshole with the precum slippery head. She wouldn't let me put it in and I asked her to hold her asscheeks apart and I would cum . She arched her ass up and held it open as I was cumming. My cum all pooled over her asshole and I told her how HOT it looked. Without hesitation I dove in, tongue first and sluped up the cum as I licked up every drop. Her body language said she enjoyed it because she pushed her spread ass against my face, coating me in my own cum. Never looked back and have cleaned her up at every opportunity. I didn't have to apologize, as she didn't complain at all.
Perhaps not everyone would appreciate I know I have had some who would have never done it again if it happened that way
Probably one of the first things I learned about sucking dick/being sucked is that you never cum in someone's mouth without their permission and, "I didn't mean to do that!" probably isn't going to fly with them and, well, it might suck to be you. I know way too many women who got traumatized by some guy blowing a load in their mouth and they didn't ask for it - homey just did it because he thought it was hot, she was supposed to just take and swallow it, whatever dumb reason he did it and, usually, after telling her that he wasn't going to cum in her mouth. Then he does, his apology is bullshit because he meant to do it, and the poor girl goes through the rest of her life being leery about sucking a guy's dick, let alone swallowing cum and all because of what some asshole did. See, this is one of those situations where you might think it's better to beg forgiveness than it is to ask for permission and you could be wrong about that and it could cost you a friend, lover, or even a wife. So, ask if you can bust one in her mouth and if she says no, don't do it. Or else. I know that every time a guy said that he wasn't going to shoot in my mouth, he was lying, did it anyway, and tried to offer some lame-assed excuse. To me, it was a matter of principle; I suck dick so I can swallow cum so, for me, getting a warm mouthful is an expectation... but don't lie to me or try to blow smoke up my ass about it and do not assume that I want your shit in my mouth just because I'm a cocksucker. If I don't tell you that it's okay, you'd better ask... or else.
Tell her that you want to finish in her mouth because you want to kiss her with a mouthful of cum to see what it's like. I wouldn't ask her to take my cum in her mouth , unless I was willing to do the same. Same goes for anal, toys and facials.
But would that be the truth? It presumes that the OP wants to taste his own cum and he hasn't indicated that he does so if he doesn't, why tell her a lie to get her to do this? She might be likely to tell you to jerk off and try to taste your own cum that way rather than putting it in her mouth and snowballing you; she might also be likely to ask, "What am I getting out of this?" - because if I didn't swallow, that would be the question I'd ask. Methinks the question you should ask her is why she doesn't want you to cum in her mouth - and that's also the question I'd ask. I can almost hear "women everywhere" losing their minds over doing something for you that, in truth, they're not getting anything out of doing it other than a warm mouthful of spunk. Hell, she could even tell you to go suck a dick so you can find out what it's like to have cum in your mouth. And if you find yourself having to negotiate for her to let you finish in her mouth, what are you going to give her in return for this? Again, I'd ask her why she won't allow it and that's provided she even wants to talk about this because if she's never let you finish in her mouth, there's probably a reason why she hasn't - and won't.
This is why I like more mature women. They probably expect to have you finish there and if they're not into taking it in the mouth, she'll usually tell you up front. I still rely on the head tap technique but by far, most of the women who have sucked me know when it's about to happen and they either stay on it and let it spurt in there, or they pull off and stroke and point it where they want it to go. And I agree. If a woman does not want you to finish there, respectt that. And even when you do get to finish inside of her mouth, she may not swallow but at that point, who cares. I do like a girl who stays on a cock well after the spurting and shivering part and those that do usually swallow to get the cum out or the way.
I always ask even with my wife fwb and fb who have regularly swallowed my load. Sometimes though they may want me to shoot on their face, breasts or depending on the moment even cum in them. So the choice in my opinion is theirs. With a new partner I always ask and most will agree to swallowing
why do you want the girl swallows your sperm ?! I cannot understand that. Do you get more pleasure ? I don't think so.
The first few times my wife sucked me I warned her I was about to cum. She sometimes kept her mouth on me and sometimes didn't. We are now at the point where I sometimes tell her and sometimes don't. She doesn't mind either way. Tells me I know when you're about to cum anyway. She almost always makes a point of swallowing and even cleans up any dribbles after the fact. Sometimes we even share my cum. Lately, I've been getting more and more adventurous and I've been going down on her not too long after I fill her pussy. I'm liking it more and more. She is too.
My goal with all my partners is their pleasure first. Fortunately my wife fwb and fb love swallowing but as I posted before I ask each and every time and with others also. It’s a matter of respect and sometimes they want it on their face or body or inside them so they to may have a specific desire for that time.
I am a girl who has swallowed cum (semen) since my very first sexual encounters and I crave it actually. And I think most of the guys get enjoyment knowing and seeing that happening
Seriously. If a woman isn’t going to let me completely finish in her mouth and swallow me, I’m not interested in her blowing me. Not worth it for me.