So,what makes someone submissive in bed? I admit I enjoy facials, being on my knees, and I would rather please the partner than receiving. I don't know how to change my innate sexual preferences.
It is a domination thing and I think everyone has a little bit of that in them...honestly I would love it if a woman came on my face while she pushed my head between her legs...I'd think it's hot, not degrading...it's a two-way street for me...I don't think it always has to be me doing the dominating
Jizz is just too thick and sticky. I hate slimy textures. Makes me gag when I've got it in my mouth. I almost threw up on my boyfriend's lap on prom night! And even with it inside me and it oozes out, too thick..it's a nasty mess. Plus I don't need babies anytime soon so we can keep it contained. Anyway, I'm going with degrading..though my boyfriend would thoroughly disagree.
To the first question: Yeah I guess I can see how that might seem strange to you. I don't know though - for me, I'm an extremely visual person and I think it's really, really hot when I can watch myself cum on a woman's face, breasts, ass, etc. (as long as the woman wants it and likes it of course). Just thinking about that turns me on. And it honestly doesn't mess up my orgasm. It actually makes it hotter because it changes things up a bit mid-orgasm. I'm not sure if this works for everyone, but I tend to have long orgasms (6 to 9 cumshots) so I really enjoy having her swallow AND letting go on her face. But I'll admit, there are times when I'm about to cum when I just have to close my eyes and push it deeper down her throat because I just can't contain myself. To the second question: yesssss...this fantasy has always turned me on because you get the best of both worlds. Not only do I get to cum in her mouth and on her tongue, but I get to see myself do it...so. fucking. hot. But likely I would totally lose control and end up missing her mouth entirely...I would make a mess...but hey...messy is fun sometimes...
LOL, this is what worries me. My boyfriend always wants to do this. But I don't really like the stuff in my mouth anyways. If we ever did it, I would worry for it to just be all over my face or in my eye or something.