Cross dressing question.

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  1. Rocket73

    Rocket73 Senior Member

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    Sounds amazing, out some photos on, you don't have show faces
     
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  2. Laurie2021

    Laurie2021 Newbie

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    Will do, I have a sexy bodystocking which I will take a photo of tonight after work. Currently wearing a thong under my work clothes but it's a Male one.
     
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  3. Rocket73

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    I'll look forward to see your photos, you could have one on your avitar, but I think you have to be a hipforum supporter, I am and it 15 dollars year or 50 dollars,for life time. Just a thought
     
  4. Daretobare

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    Love the style and color
     
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  5. Matt_K

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    Love it! Have enjoyed wearing ladies panties and bra when I masturbated for a long time... loved the feel of them against my skin. Ten-12 years ago it it progressed to shaving all my pubes for a more feminine look.
    Then bought myself some Pump heels.. the taller the sexier they felt... Before I knew it I was going on shopping trips into the markets in Sydney in my male clothes, told the shop sssistants I was shopping for the wife/girlfriend etc.. no problems.. so pretty soon had quitea range of make up, wigs, earring, lingerie and dresses both girly styrlish and girly sexy/provocative.
    Moved interstate for work 9 years ago to a conservative area and so had to purge my girly wardrobe..
    Still love checking e-bay and checking out womens clothes, lingerie etc and will be re-stocking when my contract runs out. :p
     
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  6. Patricia Gee

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    I love to dress up in a bra, panties, and nylons[stockings and pantyhose] when I masturbate.
     
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  7. KathyL

    KathyL Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    Please note that cross-dressing for masturbation or other sexual activity is a sexual fetish, and is not considered transgender.

    Many transgender people use "cross"-dressing as a means of relieving their gender dysphoria. So some discussion of cross-dressing along those lines is acceptable here. But discussion of how much you like to jerk off when cross-dressed belongs on the sexuality forums, not here.
     
  8. nudistguyny

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    I have always found this topic to be kind of funny.
    A woman can wear men's clothing and no one calls her a cross dresser. But let a guy wear women's clothing and BOOM magically they are cross dressers. It is common for women to wear different men's items- IE shirts and ties. Tee shirts, Men's work boots etc Is there a double standard ? Yes there is.
     
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  9. Patricia Gee

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    I have been a cross dresser since I was ten years old, it is true that I occasionally become aroused when 'dressed up', and relieved myself. However, while I used wear women's clothes occasionally as an outward expression of the woman trapped inside me, that woman has now been released and I am now a transwoman.
     
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  10. BiGuySW

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    What do you think about cis men who wear a broad range of clothes, including skirts and dresses, just because they feel both masculine and feminine? I don't wear skirts, dresses, and form-fitting jeans to get sexually aroused. I wear them to experience and express my femininity when that needs to be expressed, which is about half of the time. At other times, I need to express my masculinity. My girlfriend has the same need to express both masculinity and femininity, and that is one of the main reasons why we have been such great friends for so long.

    Is there space on this transgender forum for non-binary people like us? We sincerely experience the entire gender spectrum, and sometimes I hear rigid people say, "Make up your mind." I was not whole until I accepted that I am almost equally masculine and feminine, so it feels foolish to me that I would have to "choose sides".

    You are a moderator on this particular transgender forum, so I accept that you get to make the call on whether to include pan-gender people.
     
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  11. Patricia Gee

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    I would say you are gender fluid.
     
  12. Rocket73

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    I sometimes wear lingerie for sexual activity, but also wear lingerie under my mens clothes when shopping and other outside activities, I also have dresses and strappy heels. But only ever wear them in private. I don't want to be a women or go out in public dressed as a women, I just love the feel of women's clothes on my skin and how I look wearing them, I've been doing this for 60 years since a was 13, so I'm not sure what I would be classed as, my avitar is me taken a few days ago
     
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  13. KathyL

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    Wearing women's clothes (as a man) is one of the earliest indications that a person may be transgender. Typically, the light will come on when they realize that there is more to it than just being erotic. For that reason, I don't want to prohibit discussion of cross-dressing. It is like a "gateway activity" for self-awareness as transgender.

    A person may choose not to transition, but cross-dressing for non-erotic reasons typically indicates that they are at least non-binary. Which is totally cool, and belongs here.

    It is also perfectly cool for someone who wears women's clothes for non-erotic reasons to be erotic and to have an active sex life. What isn't cool is talking about how much they like to jerk off. That stuff belongs on one of the sexuality forums. I'd like to keep the focus of the discussion here on the dressing, not on the erotic activities.

    This also applies to people who are considered women wearing men's clothes. Though, as noted above, this is generally considered "normal" and not cross-dressing. Yup, it is a weird double standard. Still, I would apply the same standard here.
     
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  14. snowtiggernd

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    Maybe I'm non-binary...
    Labels labels....
     
  15. snowtiggernd

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    I've wore anything to get off. That actually seems kind of nasty to me. I dress cuz I like it and I like how it looks.
     
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  16. Patricia Gee

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    I'm wearing a white lacy bra, a matching thong and garter belt, with sheer black fully fashioned stockings today under my jeans and tee shirt. I shall wear a frock this evening while I watch the TV.
     
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  18. Patricia Gee

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    Please disregard this comment as it is factually incorrect.
     
  19. snowtiggernd

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    I mean I've never wore anything... damn.
     
  20. KathyL

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    This thread has degenerated into pointlessness. Locked.
     
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