man, you totally need to grow up and mature. liking porn is what objectifies women, it's the thought that those women who you see in porn are nothing but disgusting that objectifies women.
Hello Bored - not to try and discredit your argument or anything, and not to try and change your mind or anything (after all, this is your opinion, and you're welcome to it), but it's one thing for someone in "the business" to have sex, and yet it's totally diffrent to love someone. Sex is just a physical act between two people. Now between the correct two people it has be an orgy of love and passion, but only if you've got the right two people.. otherwise it's just an act... In the same way, a simple kiss can mean a whole hell of a lot more than physical sex, because of the meaning behind it. Now I'm not into the porn star image myself, but if I was to date a porn star, I would know that the work she does duing the day is just that - work, and as long as she comes home to me of a night, I'll be a happy man.
My girlfreind is an actor, and she told me she might get a part where she had to kiss another guy about 10 times. I told her its alright, but it would be very hard for me to watch. Luckly she didn't get the part, either way that kiss wouldn't of meant anything. The thought just makes me uneasy. If you dated a porn star, won't you be a little self-conscience about what she is doing for a bussiness. Then again this is my opinion, and I have higher standards for my girlfriend. I was saying that porn is affecting the younger generation, not the actual porn. Porn is alright if the right people watch it. Now a days, porn is very accessable for younger people and can really change their lives. So I conclude that porn isn't as bad as it would be watching it and not understanding it.
A kiss can mean anything from "I love you" to nothing at all... It's the same with sex. just the act of having sex means nothing itself... that's all I was saying. I only use porn when I need to.... it's not something I do on a regular basis, just when I'm in the need of some stress relief... I don't see a problem with porn itself, but as you said, it could be a problem if the wrong people watch/use it, but don't understand it.
Hey I dont really like hustler that much I think it's rather silly and all, and somewhat unactractive the girls look too much like barbie dolls almost superficial. But I am curious to see what you look like, and then I'll congratulate you... I dont mean that in a bad way just didnt think being in hustler would be an accomplishment in my books! Greg
If she is an actress, chances are she will end up playing a part where she has a husband, or even, god forbid, lesbian lover. If you don't grow up a bit, you might lose a perfectly good relationship because of your own inadequacies. Lets have a big round of applause for Bored. Higher standards? So high that her even kissing another guy is something you couldn't bear to watch. Have you ever had sex after you've taken her for a night out and paid for the meal? And the difference to something like prostitution is.....? P.S. Was your partner a virgin when you met her? How can you live with the thought that she has had sex with someone before you? :-/