confused about my relationship??

beautiful_sheree · Apr 23, 2011

hmmmmmm..... so should just stay and wait?

Mr.Lap · Apr 26, 2011

I will give you the same advice I would give a guy in your position, LOSE IT, TOO much BAGGAGE comes with that model and there will ALWAYS be something breaking and going wrong. For your sake . . .dump Dump DUMP and enjoy the rest of life.

lovelyxmalia · Apr 26, 2011

The Imaginary Being said:

I agree, to the most part.

the problem, however, is, we have all been in relationships - had flings, crushes, even stalked other people - long before we meet that person to whom 'you're expected to be be dedicated to'.

so, considering this, is it fair to spite the man who shares his heart for two women - when we adhere to the man who had fallen in love the first, second or third time previously?

would you turn down a date, because you were told that this person fancied someone else before, even?

we can't expect sole commitment, ever, it is not possible - we are attracted to someone over than our girlfriend or boyfriend probably at least ten times a day... suffice to say, it's more a question of commitment than dedication

you love him, he loves you, but you need to establish whether he can commit to this love. don't throw the opportunity away, being attracted to other people, well, it's not a crime.
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You said it best. That is the point I was getting at, but rereading my post, it sounded different. For instance, I've loved before and may love again, but I'm saying that it isn't fair to try and be "competing" when he is interested enough in another person to be see-sawing between the two

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