don't need no condoms. don't have sex with men people's anymore. but for the 2 years when i did, i still didn't use them. i had an iud for a while, but it was HORRIBLE, the copper in it made me feel sick, and my uterus tried to reject it out of my body every time i got my period. after i got that out, we just used the pull out method, and that worked pretty well... no oopses anyways.
Dude, come to England. Here, having sex without a condom seems to be the cool thing to do among teenagers these days. Sure, in about nine months' time you'll end up on Jeremy Kyle with the girl who got knocked up and about seven other potential dads all wanting a DNA test to find out who the real dad is. But hey, at least everyone got laid without having to use a condom (and maybe got a few STDs as souvenirs too!). It's great. Anyhow.. my partner and I don't use condoms anymore. We did for a while after I had to stop taking the pill but that was over a year ago and now we're in a position where me getting pregnant wouldn't be the end of the world at all, in fact it would be quite the opposite really.
we dont, but were monogamous and were tested for stds prior to going condomless (did use them the first few times). i picked some up the other day, but thats cuz were contemplating trying anal and imho, that requires a condom for cleanliness
Condoms are there, so that its so much better without one... I am so not good with condoms, one time I took it off just to purposely cum in the girl, well she asked me too. I def dont want a baby though.. maybe I should wise up
Condoms spoil all the fun, I always feel like I am going to jack my load when I put one on. And they stink.
i hate condoms and me and my hubby never use them, unless we dont want to clear up the mess for some reason. :tongue:
If I were single I would. But I have been with the same man for nearly 14 years, so I'm pretty sure we're safe.
Well I've tried the BCP route, and had nothing but problems. We actually became pregnant with our first pregnancy while I was on one particular type...supposedly it was because I wasn't on a high enough hormonal dose, that I should have been taking a stronger variety of that particular pill, according to the OB/GYN I had at the time. Guess I'm just uber fertile, eh. I tried taking several other types of BCPs after our first son was born, and to be quite frank, I absolutely hated how I felt on them. I swear, I turned into a raging pyscho bitch! That, and I started gaining weight on them, which made matters even worse, considering I've had issues with eating disorders and whatnot most of my life. I also knew I wasn't going to get an IUD or any other type of implant BC or injections. Call me paranoid, but I don't like the idea, was really worried about weight gain, and it seems like I'm one of those super sensitive people who always seem to have reactions to things. Heck, I had a severe allergic reaction to the tubes they tried to put in my ears as a teenager due to the amount of ear infections I was constantly getting. They had to remove the tubes about a week after the surgery because my ears swelled up so bad, I couldn't hear anything out of them. Oh, and I ended up with Staph Infection on top of it. Not good. I also tend to have a lot of sensitivities to medications, which runs in my family. After we had the twins, it was recommended to us by several doctors that my husband get the ol' snip, snip. Reason being, I was at extremely high risk. We were lucky that I survived everything that happened with the birth of the twins, and although there's a chance I actually could have another pregnancy and be alright, we were also told that we had an 80% of having twins again or higher order multiples which would put me even more into the extreme high risk category (I tend to have months were I release more than one egg in a cycle) so a permanant BC would be more appropriate for us. Also it would be less invasive for him to have his procedure done as opposed to me...and especially after all of the complications I had with the birth of the twins, it seemed like everyone thought it would be better for him to get the procedure done. We both had mixed feelings about the whole thing. It's like, we know it's unwise to get pregnant again and we have no plans of doing so we definitely are careful. But there's something that bothers us both about the whole permanent thing. The end of your fertility so to speak. He feels that way, as do I, which is why I don't want to have my tubes tied. I think it would really do something to me emotionally. I've had a hard enough time dealing with the fact that I really can't have any more babies, much less put a definite end to my fertility as a woman. I know it might not make sense, but...at least I know I'm still capable at this point, that I still have that part at least? So guess what we have to do until we can come to terms with it? Yep, that's right. Condoms. Thankfully hubby doesn't mind, and neither do I. However, and yes, I know there is risk but...we don't actually start off using them. It's only used prior to the "big bang" so to speak. We've never gotten pregnant doing it this way, so we're not worried. Eventually I think my husband will get a vasectomy. He's even told me to call and schedule him for it, but I chicken out! Me!
This thread scares me a little bit. So for all of you who don't use condoms.... aren't you scared of AIDS?
i use condoms. and I'm married, we've both been tested, but im not going to take any BC pills, tried that, i cried the first week, then yelled at everyone the second, and had a period cycle that lasted for a whole fucking month. condoms suck, but i dont want another baby right now. and i wont use the IUD, my best friend got pregnant with it (we were pregnant together) and she lost it ... so to me , condoms are the best way to go.
I'm celibate so I have nothing to do with condoms. Well I did leave empty condom wrappers in my room to freak my mom out once.
its about 50/50 with me, and most of the times i don't have my wallet so even the almost dried out one won't do
Always. From I first started having sex, I very rarely wore one up until I was 24. Then I got tested, and boy, the following week was one of the most gruelling ones of my life. I still have great sex with condoms. Since I got tested, I've only cowboyed it with one girl.
to be honest, I feel better if I use one. less worrying and whatnot. I suppose if I had a boyfriend, I'd stop using them, but until then....
