Condoms SUCK!! Do you agree ladies??

this is the most retarded thing girls do, taking birth control and still requiring a condom. Seriously, BC is 99% effective and condoms are 99% effective. same difference. if by some ungodly nightmare a girl would get pregnant on birth control, ponying up 200 bucks for an abortion is not a big deal. i cant use condoms because they cut off my circulation and make me go limp in like 10 minutes. ive fucked ~30 girls, never used a condom, no kids, no stds. you guys are pussies

 

oh thats nasty..

 

1) BC pills are 99% effective with perfect use In real life, 9 out of 100 women on the pill will become pregnant within a year. And it doesn't protect against stds. You've never had one? Congratulations, I'll buy you an Idiot of the Year trophy. How often do you get tested? And what, women are just supposed to take a man's word at it? Please. You've probably had HPV, just didn't have any signs or symptoms (men don't, unless it's the kind that causes warts) and just spread it around to however many women. Don't act like you're immune; no one is above the laws of biology. If you've REALLY never had an STD, it's because of pure luck, not because you're special. Pretending the same thing would happen to everyone else is moronic.

2) If condom's REALLY cut off your circulation (and you're not just saying you're too big in a retarded attempt to impress a bunch of strangers on an internet forum) then use a fucking magnum. Idiot. Oh, and if the condom is too small, it's not going to make you lose your erection--it would actually keep the blood in there and make it last longer (how do you think cock-rings work?)

3) If you have a problem going limp, look into viagra. Don't kid yourself by blaming it on the condom.

4) Women usually have a lot more serious side effects from STDs (cervical cancer, PID, infertility) and sex in general (UTIs, pregnancy..) And using condoms makes women "pussies"? No, it makes them intelligent, something you obviously lack. Women (and men) have every right to be concerned with their sexual health.

You clearly have no concern for the women you sleep with, and care more about your own ego and pleasure than the safety of your sexual partners. For the sake of public health and women everywhere--go fuck yourself.

 

^that

 

Condoms suck. But I think kids suck more, and I hate synthetic hormones running rampant through my body, fucking with the already-delicate balance that is my emotional state and other health aspects, so... yeah, they suck but are pretty necessary until my fiance agrees to a vasectomy, basically.

 

Let's try to dial down the rude, hateful language please, Tripstacy and Strawberry Fields. No need for that. I agree with you, Strawberry about Tripstacy's incredible run of luck for having been with 30 girls and thus far avoiding STD's. With all due respect, Trip, it's only a matter of time before "shit gets real for you" if you keep rollin' without protection and getting as much pussy as you're evidently getting. Also, please try to be a bit more tactful in your responses to others, Tripstacy. I think Strawberry went off on you because you weren't respectful to SweetSophia. I'm just sayin'. Be good, People!

 

1) so take the damn pill properly, is that so hard? people brush their teeth every day, they eat every day, shower every day, etc. take your birth control every day. its even fine to miss a day. if thats too difficult then get a nuva ring. and stds that dont cause symptoms? in that case, who cares? because society has this huge stigma that people with stds are gross and disgusting? modern medicine makes pretty much all stds manageable and in most cases completely curable. those facts in mind, im not going to live my life being paranoid that every other woman has an std. its not the 1930s, this shit doesnt kill you anymore

2) i do use magnums in fact, and every time it comes off theres a deep, red and painful looking ring on my dick. ive never had a problem staying hard without a condom, but with one, hell yes i do. its probably a cross between both constriction and loss of feeling. idk, either way its definitely the condom and id rather jerk off then wear one most of the time.

4) most of what I said was directed towards girls in relationships that have the same partner every day, but still insist on using condoms anyway. no worries for diseases, nothing. (i forgot that uti's where life threatening, silly me. no way you could go to the doctor and it goes away after 3 days.) and like i said, 99% chance its not going to end in a pregnancy. and those odds, which are pretty fucking good, are the same for every time you have sex. so no, you arent getting a kid if you have sex 100 times. worst case scenario, abortion or adoption. weighing the benefits vs the risk...yeah, worth the risk for sure. for a one night stand, makes sense to use protection. I have been thinking about doing that myself while im still ahead here, in fact.

 

I like condomes the ribbed kind I'm sorry it feels just fine for me and I'm not becoming a parent so you can feel good I also am not using some chemical or hormone that may fuck with ma sweet sweet body

 

Keep your man opinions away from woman's bodies

 

i sometimes plastic wrap my dick

 

So get a vasectomy, is that so hard? Have you ever had to take a pill at the same time everyday? Birth control is the responsibility of BOTH partners, not just one. If someone (and in this case, not even someone you're sleeping with) wants to use a condom in addition to the pill, who are you to judge?

Look kid, I'm a nurse. I think I know a little bit more about sexual health than you. Especially when you seem to think that your personal experience is somehow clinically significant. And especially when you think that STDs that don't cause symptoms are harmless--Colon cancer has no symptoms in the beginning, so what do symptoms have to do with severity? STDs--yes, even those without symptoms-- can cause infertility, for one, and in the case of symptomless HPV, it causes cervical cancer. But that's right, you don't have a cervix (or testicles, apparently) so why should you care?

And UTIs are no big deal? That's because you've likely never had to suffer through one, and you probably won't until you're old and your prostate swells up and you get urinary retention--and when that happens, be careful, karma's a bitch. You probably won't be belittling it so much at that point. Oh, and once again, UTIs can be asymptomatic too! And guess what happens when you don't know you have one so you don't get treated? Oh that's right, it spreads to your kidneys! No big deal.

I never said people with STDs are disgusting. I'm just kind of assuming that most people would like to avoid them if at all possible. Maybe I'm wrong.

I never said you're going to get pregnant if you have sex 100 times--that's not even what that statistic means. 99% means that 1 out of 100 women on the pill (even with perfect use) is still going to get pregnant. And you fail to address those women who have horrible side effects from the pill.

However, if you'd rather jerk off then wear a condom, by all means, be my guest. Better than risking you getting into the gene pool.

Speaking of the gene pool....I love how you've already decided that abortion and adoption are automatic options for women. Because every woman (or all the ones you're sleeping with, apparently) would be totally willing to have an abortion if they got pregnant, or "just adopt" because that's totally easy too. I'm curious, do you screen women before you sleep with them to ensure their willingness to spare you from your potential responsibilities? Do they sign a waiver? You seem awfully self-assured for someone of limited awareness about the world.

Seriously, stop commenting on a topic that's clearly not your strong point. You're not helping your case any.

PS: What happened to #3? Just curious...

 

i would get a vasectomy if i didnt want to have kids eventually, but thats kind of apples to oranges right? im not saying girls should get their tubes tied, im saying take a pill every day. have I had to do that? sure, every prescription medication ive ever had included directions. eat one at these times every day. considering condoms make the sexual experience worse for both parties involved, I think its fair to put the burden of birth control on the girl. And I am judging because if a girl takes birth control there is absolutely no reason to use a condom whatsoever (given the std thing isnt a factor). Yes, SOME women have negative side effects from using birth control. luckily, their are several different kinds of birth control. ive never met a girl who hasnt been able to find one of them with reasonable side effects.

If a girl wants to have the kid, I cant be responsible for that. I think theres a pretty basic understanding that a one night stand is just that, and almost all slutty girls take birth control. if one is really stupid enough to have a one night stand unprotected and not say anything....thats definitely leaning towards her fault. and then she decides to keep the baby and i dont have a say at all? fair enough its her body, but dont expect child support

as for number 3, didnt have anything to say on that. no point in responding to a personal attack

 

I'm a guy. I don't think ANY decision with those consequences (ie, pregnancy) should be the responsibility of one person only.

I have. I know more than a few who for various reasons can't take oral contraceptives.

So, you meet a girl, and accept her assurance that she's taking an oral contraceptive, and with no more than that you have sex with her. In that event, I'd be getting myself ready to spend LOTS of money on child support. All Western countries now extract it from wages and salaries. Even if she DELIBERATELY lies to you in order to get pregnant AGAINST your express wishes, you'll still be paying child support.


I've been through a very uncomfortable period when a woman I was seeing who was on oral contraceptives didn't tell me she had been ill (ie, vomiting) a few days before we had a week together. Six weeks later she rang me and said "Umm, I'm late...and I'm worried". (All sorts of things can screw up the oral contraceptive....vomiting, diarrhea, antibiotics are just a few of them.)

All worked out well for us, but it often doesn't. Take care is all I'm saying.

 

i dont know... i read this and I got hard.

 

Ive rarely had sex without a condom but I definitely think it feels soo much better and its great not to have to fiddle around with condoms before you can do it but im scared of the risks too even though I take my pill religiously.

 

at my age I just shoot blanks so guilt free sex, lets do it

 

Yes condoms are terrible. Sometimes neccessary, but terrible.
There's something sad about watching, or helping, a man put a piece of rubber on his thing, ....
.... and after he's finished ........

For most of my active life, I've avoided the nasty things (purely from an anti-disease position) - and as i had a tubal ligation at 34, well pregnancy wasn't an issue.

Okay, maybe it is playing with fire, but even tho sperm is pretty yucky, I somehow feel something's missing without the dreaded "wet spot" after sex.

 

What about female condoms? You can get them on E-bay but I have never seen any for sale on shops in Australia.

 

A female condom is like humping a blowup doll




If you don't like wearing a condom.... don't.... but just make sure the girl doesn't know your real name and where you live. The ol out of town pump and dump.

 

Ditto but I'm not on the pill.