complainin about too many blowjobs

Fair enough. Some men prefer sex over blow jobs, I am one of them. As of today, at least.

 

... I'm just curious, but why do you feel the need to give him blow jobs? I had one girlfriend who didn't want me to give her oral because then she felt obligated to give it back to me. I tried to explain to her that I just liked to do it and that I certainly wasn't expecting a blow job in return. If you tell him that pleasing him is pleasing to you (as long as this is indeed the case) and he's still saying he doesn't like it, then he's got more going on in his head than he's letting on.

 

Sure is nice to see someone that is so graceful about being wrong.

Teeth are good when used right. My girlfriend would sometimes scrape when she first started, and it didn't feel so nice. Now that she's basically a pro, she can bite me and make it feel great.

Exactly what does that mean? =P

 

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion is all. Just don't care if we agree or not.

It seems there's no rationalizing to be had with the irrational, had you still feel your opinion is right.

Maybe a free speech forum isn't the place for you...?

 

sex is always way better than a blowjob.

 

i dnt feel the need for him to recipricate wuth oral one me
he has never done oral on me
and i have told him its pleasing to me to please him
n wat do u mean by dat last part

duh

:cheers2:

thanx for restatin my question for me

 

You were arguing about what I felt...

 

I see the opposite as true

 

Their could be any number of things going on in his head. Maybe he just doesn't like it and would rather get in that snatch, maybe he has issues about it being "dirty" (I also had a girl who wouldn't give head because she didn't want to kiss her niece with a mouth that's had cock in it). Basically without hearing the content of his complaining, I can't really guess at his mind state. You said that he complains that he isn't giving you pleasaure when you blow him, you also said that you have told him that this is not the case, therefore, there is something else going on in his head that he's not sharing with you.

 

i simply could not be with a girl that was to upidy to not suck cock. id make her get used to it, or show her the door.

seriously its as bad as a guy not wanting to eat pussy. i mean wtf.
what guy doesnt like to eat pussy. faggots thats who.

i wouldnt marry a girl and miss out on gettin my cock sucked my whole life. that sucks. it means the sex with person overal is shit. cause fuck its hot when u fuck her and stick it in her mouth then fuck her more. hmmm

 

I agree, if a girl doesn't go south she is not worth it, you shouldn't have to ask either

 

ur right
hes just wierd lol

ive had a couple of lovers who didnt like to
and i showed them the door shortly after..

i think that too
n ima chick,,,,

 

i used to not like blowjobs... actually terrified of them. my first bj was from a girl w/ braces.

 

try yanking the ball sack

 

haha one of my friends got her braces stuck on he lovers pubic hairs
she ended up gagin n pukin onda poor guy lol

massagin not yankin
the balls contract wen they about to orgasm
pulling them makes em just take longer to cum

 

Well, if there is a girl, who should come into my life, with certain skills...you know...

 

Got it.

 

idk im lost...??

 

sg_girl gave everyone some hardness here while her lover is complaining .. if he complains next time start sucking his balls and ass hole to make him somewhat more mad....he does not sound to like sex a lot.

 

advocatus diabolus:

maybe he just doesnt like HOW you give blow jobs?
maybe you just dont do the BJ like he wants them?
maybe you just dont give good BJ in general?
maybe he just likes to fuck more often instead of a blow job?
maybe he actually thinks you dont get anything out of it and do it just for him? yes, believe it or not, there are actually men out there for whom it is very very important that the "lady comes first" - obviously none in this thread, but thats not my prob.

maybe you really give blow jobs too often? sure, a BJ is nice, but if you get them 4 or 5 times a day... yeah, i think even i would be bored after some time then. a BJ is nice, but as everything nice you can overdo it.

maybe pep BJ a bit up... let him cum on your tits, smear yourself with his cum... maybe this gets the message across that you really like it.