Coming out- the bi-sexual version..starring..me

Feel better now wild flowers? You got your support... from an animal fucker...

Congratulations...

 

Doesn't make my words any less valid.

 

Never said it did... in fact I will totally agree with you, you will forever be known as an animal fucker now...

 

LOL, thats cool. If I had minded I wouldn't have been so open about it.

And to be honest, in many respects I am a FORMER animal fucker. Although my preferences remain the same, I haven't been active in over a year. I hope to BE active again one day but I now understand why some widows/widowers never date again after losing their spouse

 

better an animal fucker than a Canadian though, right?

 

Guess what you just qualified for....

 

I doubt your my type, but I suppose it's always worth a try

 

I am very glad for you ! Coming out to your parents is a very difficult thing to do and trust me I've been there haha! Now they will either accept it or they wont but what really matters is that you don't have to be afraid anymore about being yourself!

When my parents found out it was interesting to see which one was more comfortable with the new found bi son My mother was actually so comfortable that she ended up asking me all kinds of questions about my experiences etc. hehe however my Dad seemed a bit shocked about it. I've never heard him mention it again because I believe that it makes him a little uncomfortable to think about it but thats ok because I was true to myself and I can be myself now

You should be very proud of yourself because you accepted yourself for who you are and you are not afraid to show people the real you! Being Bi is not a bad thing.. Why restrict your love to one Gender ?

Btw if that is you in your sig.. I love your hair

 

Oy, Its hard not to fuck with people in threads like this, when they say stuff like:

Dufass, they knew years before you told them, especially your mum

There ya go, say the word "bi" out loud to your parents, then magically for the rest of your life all anxiety with everyone else disappears

You've accepted yourself for who you are - like anyone knows

You are not afraid to show people the real you - so the next time you have naughty thoughts about an angry straight guy twice your size let him know you want to put his face out with your firehose, and why not, you are no longer afraid to show people the real you.

 

Wild-Flowers....... I can completley understand just how hard it was to tell your parents. Been there, done that and it was soo uncomfortable. It sounds like you are close to them which is why you took the first opportunity to tell them......... even though other posters seem to think you did it for dramatic affect....blah.....blah....blah.

I came out when I was around the same age and my parents were supportive but also a little strange. I became the new topic of dicussion with my mother and her friends and anytime there was a gay issue up for debate my mother was like "Well...my daughter is bisexual and....." I guess she thought she was showing support but she was also putting me and my sexuality on display for people. A part of me wishes that she had just ignored it and pretended I hadnt said anything. Either way you look at it......telling our parents is uncomfortable.

You have commented on several of my own posts about pretty much the same thing.....there is no doubt in my mind that one of the reasons my current situation is so frustrating is because I am realizing that we can not just turn the other way and pretend that a part of our sexuality doesnt exist and cant be explored. I was so fucking concerned with what people thought about me that I ingnored my attraction to women.

You are young.......even though it is hard now it will get easier as you get used to putting your own needs first. Hopefully your parents will come around but if they dont.....hey...you have to focus on your own happiness. And seriously, ignore like half of the shit people have posted on here.

 

The reason other posters think she did it for dramatic effect is because that has been her main calling card here. She has jumped from one crisis or personal epiphany to another. When one goes wrong, she drops it, waits a week and then comes up with another one.

If at any point in time she would stop doing so, and start just being, instead of looking for something that she can become the center of attention for, then when she really did have an issue to discuss, people would take more time to listen...

As it is though, she'll just go do her 'job' of cleaning her own room in her parents house, while trying to avoid her parents wrath as shortly I am sure they will threaten to kick her out once again... of course this time, it will likely be over her being bisexual...


Unless of course she gets pregnant before then...

 

Im dying for your approval and your attention Tom you've got me pegged.

 

Haha yes I do, I don't really blame some for thinking that it's a drama show but uh- it's not. Haha I did come out to my parents and I have wanted to for a long time. and my life can be hectic it's just the way it is. Only maybe I make the mistake of posting about it and asking for feedback because apparently that means i'm out for attention.

 

This one actually is too far. I wrote my own report FOR SCHOOL, on an issue that meant something to me. And wanted feedback from my parents if they found it to be persuassive at all (that was the assignment) from there it went from a report to me telling them. I was inspired by Harvey Milk, and I wanted my parents to know the real me(ive had to bite my tongue on several occasions). Yes!! I have posted several issues about my life on here, everything from once worrying I was pregnant, to the disgusting crap ive found under my bed at times. I don't honestly think..hmmm what is ChronicTom going to think about me and write about me. I just want to have a laugh and hear everyones perception on the issue (including your own cynical harassment). I don't know I just think you take what I type and put on here too seriously, everyone has issues in their life. I come on here for advice and feedback because it isn't as hard as asking someone I know and hearing their judgement (that judgement is something I care about). Yours however..well you seek out my posts and write shit everytime. I just think your an asshole.

 

And here I thought we didnt agree on anything...

 

It is me ! thanks sweetums! , and thank you for your positivity.

 

I'd like to thank all of those who believed in me! this..is such an honour! thank you.!

 

Why do you care so much about how often she posts and what she posts about? It bothers you so much but yet you sit down and respond how many times? Reading this thread is kind of funny now. I'm imagining you and several other posters yelling at the computer screen and having to wipe off drops of spit as you pound on the keyboard in anger because some 20 year-old-girl posts about too many random things. How dare she! She needs to make up her mind. LOL Ugh....it's not that serious.