co-worker flirting

hi peeps

thanks all for your comments, i really appreciate it.

firstly, i have not cheated or betrayed her, we have agreed on a seperation, since a week now.

secondly, i havent taken advantage of the situation yet, i.e: my co-worker's advances.

thirdly, i just wanted to kno if I must act on those advances made by her or should i just leave it.

I'm a nice guy, thats the whole reason for the post, and I am an even better dad.

 

...but you said the flirting was happening BEFORE August? So yeah, you were cheating on your woman before the separation was spoken of....
and no doubt she probably was catching on to what you were doing... and so NOW, wants a separation ...

I never said you were a bad guy. I said you were the kind of guy a woman couldnt trust. If you want to be the player, be the player. Dont be a hypopcrite about it. Get involved with someone who does the same.... stay out of relationships

 

I am just going off of your own words. Here is what you posted today:

Regardless of all the other crap involved here and assuming you are single, I still would not recommend it. The reason is that you work with her. It is not a good idea to mix business and pleasure. Things can become awkard very quickly in these situations. I have personally seen 3 people fired for harassment after the office romances broke up. Unfortunately it is looked at as the mans mistake for the most part.

 

I personally think she lost interest in you, at the same time she didn't want you to leave her alone. This is one of those things that goes with girls wanting attention but really they just love to tease men and their dicks. She probably liked the attention at first but somehow you turned her off. I don't really know the whole story, it seems like your skipping some details here or something.

 

wait. how are you or umm weren't you cheating. Come on do you really believe that? You said this was going on before the seperation. so how can you be confused?

Are some guys really this dense?

Get out of the breeding pool.

 

Its Not Cheating
I Havent Fucked Her Yet
I Havent Kissed Her Yet

 

I think everyone should stop worrying about if its cheating or not and stay the fuck out of other peoples business. If he wants to hookup with someone, or shit even fuck 3 females at once who the fuck are you to tell him that its not right or he is a bad guy for cheating? Worry about yourself. Answer the OP's original question and stop being nosy bitches.

 

^ I agree ^

 

yeah dudes!
now we talking!
dont hate the player hate the game!

 

If you think thats all that cheating is... your an IDIOT.

 

G uh, HELLO. He posted on a FREE SPEECH forum in a RELATIONSHIP thread... this aint the sex thread. So we freely addressed it as we would looking at a relationship. If he was really concerned about it being considered cheating he would have kept it private anyways.

Its always funny how if a woman speaks up about the shit men do, that they are considered bitches. AS IF we should just sit by and shut up as they do shit behind their womens back. Yeah.... bet all you men would love that.

Wanna post here? Expect responses. Wanna post here about stuff you know very few people will agree with? Expect negative responses. Deal with it.

 

No, just hate the SCUMBAGS that cheat...
if you are claiming to be in a relationship and you are talking about everything youve done with your flirting and sex talk and INTENTION --THATS RIGHT THE INTENTION IS CHEATING-- ....... then dont expect polite responses from us. You are a scumbag and you cheated on your woman.

Oh.... and Haid pointed out that you've made posts about your WIFE..? .... well you failed to mention that here: You said she was your girlfriend. So which is it? Dude if she is your wife, and you were doing that flirting and shit before August then you are a complete jerk and I have no sympathy for you. You deserve every negative thing you get from people here.

 

The point of his thread is to get advice about a co-worker he is flirting with, he is not asking people if cheating is ok or if his situation is considered cheating. If you want to critize someone else about cheating maby you should look around for a thread that is based on that subject.

Your attitude is kind of funny because you act like its your business to defend his relationship with his wife, when in reality, this thread has nothing to do with that. Are you looking for drama? Getting your dose of daily arguing in?

Oh by the way i am totally against cheating too but that doesnt mean im going to go on and on and on about it, its so damn annoying...If you like look up the bad 5 letter word in the dictionary, im sure your name would be there somewhere.

p.s. You look pretty

 

yeah actually he did speak of cheating... he said in his first thread that "he hadnt cheated yet" ....... we just wanted to clarify to him that he has cheated on his woman and that cheating is not always physical. He is a fool to think otherwise.

dude I hate cheaters. I grew up as a kid listening to argument after argument, listening to my mom cry and be hurt again and again..... believe me, if you knew how much that hurts you would speak out against it passionately, too. This guy has a KID by this woman that he is cheating on. Hopefully that kid isnt old enough yet to know whats going on. As I plainly stated in one of my first posts, he should have broken up with his girlfriend/wife or whatever she is, and THEN he would be free to flirt. He cant expect us to agree that he wasnt cheating. If she is his girlfriend he is hurting her by emotionally cheating on her. If she is his wife, well he is going against his marriage promises.

Annoying or not, its true, and Im not the only one who has said this stuff here.

and thanks

 

Where in this thread did i give him advice? I didnt. your point is weak

god damn you are good at agruing, i give up.

 

I was referring to you telling us to not address the cheating, but it doesnt matter... I said something rude to you and I regretted/deleted it. Sorry about that.

 

who says we hafta answer exactly how he wants. YOU??? bwahahahaha but no thank you. I don't listen to 17 year old boys on what I have to or should do

 

Exactly.... I'm sorry, but it's a situation that most folks don't agree with. When you post stuff on the internet you'll probably get a response, but there's no guarantee that it's what you want ot hear. C'est la vie.

 

Thats how I feel.


Some of us see this as what it really is, which is self destructive behavior. So in a effort to help someone along their life path I think it is relevent. Besides the "seperation" didn't come up until he was taking crap, before that is was "I have a kid so I can't just dump her".

 

My question is where the fuck do you people work that your employer isn't reading your emails and such and you can do all of this at work. I ask because first of all, know that you employer knows everything that is going on, and second, I want to make sure I buy absolutely no services or products from you because obviously you don't give a shit about your work and more about playing grab ass at the office.

And yes what you were doing is and was and ever will be CHEATING. Regardless of what horny teenagers and 20 somethings tell you. It wasn't as if you smiled at the check out girl without intention, you had every intention and now you want the girl even more. So it was most certainly cheating. And this is not a "game". And you men are not "players". Grow the fuck up. Children and marriage is not a game. You can't cash in your hotels or change your token on a whim. This is real life for people, innocent people such as your children. Have you ever thought of them. Have you ever thought of someone other than yourself?

And I know this has been touched on slightly, but don't come into this forum and ask our advice and then get pissed off when we don't validate what you are doing in order to ease your conscience. You know it is wrong or you wouldn't have asked. If you can't take the heat, then get the fuck out of the goddamn kictchen. Don't ask us stupid questions that you know the answers to, otherwise we're going to burn your ass.

What a waste of space.