self respect doesnt enter into it. the very phrase SELF respect means there are different standards for different people. just because YOU dont respect her for such choices doesnt mean SHE has a problem with it. its really more your hang up than anything else.
thats a tough one i think its kind of wrong to doing that because it really is basically prostitution even though she might not be a real prosititute. although, i am 16 too and just like every other 16 guy i want head and so do you so it could be worth it if you really are that desperate and if shes actually hot