Cheating On Your girlfriend

uh yeah arrowhead, thats all good and fine, if all the people involved KNOW about it.

i do not feel that cheating benefits a relationship basically for all the same reasons that everyone who shares this opinion has already stated. if there is a problem that needs to be fixed, you talk about it, fix it, or get out. no one can benefit from the pain of being cheated on.

wait, i take that back, if you have been cheated on, there may be one benefit, and that is that you will learn that you are strong enough to live through it, and that you can be on your own without dying after you leave the cheater. so it can benefit each person seperately, but not as a whole. ok, i'm confusing myself.

 

..well yeah based off of your long ass paragraph on mutliple partners then i guess you wouldnt know who the hell else has been through your current girl.

but i find it completely incorrect that when normal people, meaning one man and one woman in a committed relationship, lick or kiss eachother anywhere for that fact that theyre truly worried about the possibility that Joe with crabs down the street has infected her/him.

 

Yes, assuming that we are already aroused we can get into sex without the foreplay. But this is only truly fun if we truly do not care if our partner is enjoying it or not.

For me, a huge part of the fun of sex is knowing that my wife is enjoying me as much as I'm enjoying her. As such, foreplay for me is not a turn-off. And I certainly don't have to worry about whether or not she might be clean because:

a.) We shower together and

b.) we are both monogamous by choice (and no, neither of us cheat. Yes, I trust her. Yes, she trusts me. How do I know? I just do.).

So I can't really say that hygiene (which is a big deal for me) is a bigger deal than foreplay. And the delay that you speak of is fun for me because I like making her scream - in a good way.

 

I've cheated on a lot of people that I cared about... it may sound whack but for me hooking up with another person in no way means I have feelings for them its just in fun. Of course the majority of the population see this as a terrible thing and it has ended relationships but friendship overcame all in the end in most cases. Because you see, I'm really not a shitty person, my outlook on life is just a tad bit different I suppose.
One can question my validity however, because I'm not sure if I've ever really been in love. I'm sure that changes things greatly..

 

At one point in my life I was seeing two girls, and in theory cheating on both of them. It was an interesting experience, and not one that I'd jump to repeat. That said, there were benefits. As sick as it makes me with myself, I sometimes think I'm not programmed for monogammy.