Caught with the pr0nz

hahhahaaha 80's porn!


I just use the free stuff online.

 

in what sense?

 

I am flattered, thank you. I would probably show interest as well. I love myself, I am very happy with the person I am, despite the many things I need to fix. I was saying most of those things as a joke. At the same time, there are very real reasons why having a girlfriend is hard...a few minor inconveniences that make life hard, and also the fact that I am insane. I am SURE that the right girl is around the place...just gotta be patient and get out a bit more.

In the mean time I have pr0nz!!!! YAY!!!!

Have you considered counselling instead of fast food? You'd be good. You have a knack for kind consolation.

 

Agreededness. The code is the glue that holds things together, or so some people think. If someone threatens to fight the code, then they threaten the glue, and everything falls apart.

 

and he has an accent! *nudge*

 

In the sense that our overbearingly structured and ordered social universe is failing us. We're very conscious about what is "normal" and "abnormal" when it comes to social behaviour. It's one of the very reasons why we can't understand children and why they just can't understand us. We live in a world of structured systems, and children have very little awareness of these normalcies in our little unwritten behaviour code.

Impulses, I think was the word that Andrew used. We have impulses as adults, but we don't act on them like we did as children.

What is there different going on that is stopping us?

 

i act on my impulses

 

I agree with you.

I suppose I can only speak for myself, but my plan is to guide my kid through life, nurturing whatever talents it has in a manner conducive to optimal development. Which means living according to a particular and temporary taste, which is all the code is. I don't really see a reason why being agreeable with societal norms is in any way detrimental to the development of the creative spirit, they can mutually coexist.

 

It is only fairly recently in our married life that WE started to have a small porn collection. So, there isn't anyone around to find it..'cept maybe the kid..and it is well hidden for her protection.

I'm sure there was times hubby got caught with it as a kid- as an adult he wasn't really into it for a long time, and neither was I.

 

when we had a desk top, my wife found some porn in the garbage and got a little pissed cuz our nephews and nieces use it when they're here so the next day I bought a lap top.

 

hide the Asianropes..

 

I don't watch porn so no porn collection here. I envy some of you people who have such a laid back attitude towards porn, I wish I was like that too but I have huge issues with it.

 

fear.

 

wow! this thread exploded.

yes. yes. yes. to all the things that you guys have been saying about societal structure, and all of that.

and all i have to say on original topic: pr0n is awesome. i love it, my partner loves it... i mean, in the sense that you have to be in the mood for it or whatever... but it's a great addition to our sex life.

oh, and face... you're quite the guy. not sure why any of a million girls wouldn't be fighting over you... cause i've been really impressed with a lot of your posts on here, and you have really amazing eyes, which can't hurt, eh?

 

my dearest lover also has the same point of view.

She is really put off by porn and really started to have a problem with it when she caught me "browsing" late one night. I don't blame her though, I was a dickhead about it until recently when I came to my senses.

pr0n in moderation is healthy and somewhat normal, but it's one of those things (specifically for dudes) that can easily lead to addiction.

As for myself, I have pictures here and there but wouldn't consider it porn per se. I normally stick with amateur stuff if im bored and want to look at boobies. fuck the professional stuff... it's reaaaaally graphic.

 

haha... wow, dean. i wouldn't have guessed that about your loverly lady laura.

and so it just occurred to me, i haven't watched porn as in, hardcore porn, in a REALLY long time. and jrny does a lot less than before too.

which makes me think... i think porn of the graphic hardcore nature is a way to break through a lot of social stigma that surrounds sex. those of us who were unblessed enough to have strict christian and/or catholic or any other religious nut jobs bringing us up take years and years to deal with the stigmas and tabboos about sex that were instilled in us since birth. and pr0n has a way of breaking through all of that and helping you get to your inner sexy.

and i think i haven't been watching as much porn lately, because a lot of the issues i/we as a couple have had regarding sex have been resolving over the past few months.

maybe i'm just crazy, but i feel a real correlation here. or maybe i'm just stoned enough to think it's a big amazing idea...

 

i like nude art...

and sometimes a bit of lesbian porn...

but... you know, bad experiences. bad experiences

 

so sorry for bad experiences. that's shitty.

lesbian porn is great. IFM is amazing. so artistic and purely beautiful sexuality. mm. anyway.

 

indeed. we all have our things, and lately dean and i have really changed in a lot of ways. many months ago i might never have thought we could be this incredibly honest with each other. i love the openness. but we always make sure the other is comfortable, first and foremost