Can't seem to fit much

In no way was I suggesting you were. I was just seeing if anyone has experienced this or know of someone who has.

 

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I would have to agree with the last few people about going to see your gyno. Even if there's nothing wrong, she might have suggestions for you, and at least you would know something for sure, if nothing else to put your mind at ease.

 

Ok I know it's been a while but I went to see my gyno, and nothing is wrong as far as they are concerned. So this leaves me back at square one.

 

I can't believe how tight you are.

 

Ohhh believe it. Its such an inconvenience.

 

Are you getting wet enough?

 

Yes, that's not a problem. Even use lube if not.

 

I had a gf like that. Gyno said everything was fine. I had a hard time trying to penetrate her, she said it hurt. Once I finally was able to penetrate her we were able to have sex but it was very uncomfortable for her.

 

Yh, and I can understand that. When I went to see my gyno she wanted to rule out vaginismus. I am able to receive penetration it's just difficult and takes a long time. The majority of the time though just as he goes to enter or I use a toy/fingers it tightens like its refusing entry, teasing almost. Its all completely involuntary.

 

Sounds like maybe it could be psychological? Just a guess, of course. I don't know your childhood history.

There have been some women who have had themselves tightened up by surgery. Perhaps there could be an answer there for you, only the obvious opposite. Something as traumatic as what you describe would surely be covered by insurance. It couldn't be considered a cosmetic issue.

 

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Do you watch your fingers or the sex toys as you try to insert them ?
Why not try closing your eyes next time & imaging it's someone else doing it for you - relaxing as much as you can - if you can ?

 

You think? I can't think of anything that would cause that.

Oh really? Yh.. I don't think that is going to happen. I'm not the biggest fan of the doctors let alone surgery. But that is interesting, I never knew that.

Joshoa: I don't think that is going to help. If I can't even fit my smallest of toys then I doubt i'd be able to fit a bigger one.

nz male: It depends, sometimes I do, sometimes I don't. I like to not watch sometimes because it builds up anticipation although I can feel it.
Yh I tried laying back and imagining it is someone else doing it but it doesn't work either. Which is strange because one of my biggest turn ons are a mans hands touching me.

 

Are you able to have an orgasm just from clitoral stimulation?

 

I am yes

 

Have you had any kids? I've heard some woman have this happen after giving birth.

 

Aha no I don't. I know I come from a town with a high pregnancy rate for young people but no, I do not have any children.

 

Oh didn't mean to insinuate anything.

 

You are nervous.

Here is my story, I was uncomfortbly tight and my understanding hubby at that time started thinking what to do.

Clitoral stimulation while penetrating,,, fingers first then penis. get you going near climax first, a slap or two on the ass if you like that kind of thing to heat up the situation and take your mind off your sore spot, lots of dirty talk but not about banging you so hard your eyeballs pop out, that might freak you out more.
A couple drinks first, even tho I am not about guys getting women drunk to have sex.

I know you said you are not with a partner right now but these might work while alone too. You just need to be thinking about something else to get past the fear. Its not unusual, but its kinda rare. The mind can play a silly game and it needs to be thrown off sometimes.
Dont get plastered or resort to drugs, just find a way to relax and stimulate first.

When you meet a guy with a big heart and he thinks he is falling in love with you, thats a good time to tell him you have this problem, either he cares and wants in you and will help you or he will run,,,, its a good time to watch him leave if thats what he does.
It might feel a bit embarrassing knowing he heard that and ran but its probably a lot less embarrassing then if you tried and couldnt and he runs thinking his dink is too big for you and he gets a fat head over it.