2hrs?.....I don't fucking think so....I could leave her there and go get a new gf in 2 hours op...its you she isn't turned on by....break up....move on
is it really necessary that your wf, gf orgasm while you make it her? When my ex-wf told me she didn't have had an orgasm I always replied 'No problem, than we can have sooner again sex. Otherwise you'll be satisfied for the next months.' ;-) For the very moment I don't mind if my gf has an orgasm or not - as long as she's happy with the situation as it is....
Pesonally, I feel like an experience I had belongs to me, and I can do as I wish with it. However, I do not disregard the feelings of others, so I would never have done as she did, and tell a partner about a conversation I had with someone else about something private between us unless it was both flattering and I thought he would enjoy knowing. In your case, I think she is deliberately emasculating you because she is completely unsatisfied sexually, and not mature enough to communicate this to you in a healthy way. Or maybe she's not that into you and wants you to leave her.
If a girl masturbates often, she normally will reach orgasm easier than those girls who don't. That's because she already knows what kind of touching feels good and which areas of her body give her the most pleasure. Coax her to masturbate herself so that she can explore her own body and guide you next time when she finds her sweet spots.